Hate Nice Relationships

Nice good wonderful but not "perfect" relationships are SO darn hard to let go off

It wasn't all good so you know you have to stop being together

But it wasn't all bad so you feel like letting go of that good part is so painful and difficult to do

It is much easier to let go of an asshole!
You can watch them walk away like "Glad that's over!"

But with these pesky "really good when it was good but bad when it was bad" relationships, they get stuck onto you like super glue

It is like your heart gets ripped in half, into totally equal parts

Like you love this that and the other about the person then there is that one or two things.....
Those things you can not stand

And then you think about breaking up....

This can make you flip flop for months! Even years!

Too bad there isn't a relationship fairy to tell you which decision is the right one for you!

Luckily I'm here to lend a hand to the utterly conflicted!

Remember: Only you can really know what goes on between the two of you so take what others say light hearted 

I am still here for advice anytime! Let me know and I can do my best to help!


A kiss for you!


Love,
KissyNicole
kissynicole2@live.com

Depression Is Conquerable

Depression, actual depression, not just "being sad" is tough
It can consume a person and lead to their death in some cases

And it isn't really talked about all that often

but why? a lot of us have had that really dark time in our lives
this is a some what common thing here!

What is hard though is when you can't get out of it
When you really have lost all hope
Lost friends, lost family, lost everything that ever meant anything to you

People that go through that need help

I have had my own problems with depression for maybe 5 years?
It was such a dark time I can't remember time, a month could feel like years and time was just all a mess
Everything was a mess!

It is the worst place to be in
A kind of prisoner in your own mind
Your negative or numbed out thoughts control you
And they can get this unrelenting hold on your spirit
Like you are not you anymore
Like you died and were no longer there

So awful!

No one should stay stuck in that

The amazing news though is that it can be conquered
And the new outlook on life you will have after will be so much more valuable than people who have not experienced this profound hurdle

The first few steps have to be reaching out to someone, anyone, even a stranger, maybe even me!

You are worth the effort it takes to cure the depression

And it is not as hard as it may seem, I promise

Depression is not this impossible thing to overcome
Don't look at it that way, Look at it in a temporary way like "this is terrible, but it will pass"

Be your own mirror
Look at how you think
Look at how you speak to others
Look at your life

Recognize that, that life is not good for you and that it must change now


You can ask me for help with this issue or check out these two links to great information

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/depression/DS00175

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/depression_tips.htm

You don't have to be "diagnosed" to start trying to help yourself out
But as some advice, when you can not cure yourself, look to outside help like a doctor
Sometimes it's all just your darn hormones acting up in a weird way
But when it's all your thoughts, YOU have the power to change that and get better

Everyone deserves a happy life, everyone!
So start making the steps you need to take and just do it

I've done it and you can too!

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole