Dream Board

Grab a piece of cardboard


Rip out photos from magazines or whatever you like 


These photos should represent your dreams and goals


Put them all over the cardboard


And done!


You have created a dream board, now when you look at it you will be reminded of everything you want and be all the more inspired to go out and accomplish them!


"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world." - Buddha


Your thoughts make your external world, focus on your dreams and boom! they will happen in your life.


A kiss to you!
Love, KissyNicole


And here is my dream board!

The Basics

Let's get back to the basics
Tons of people neglect the basics in life and then wonder why their lives aren't how they want it to be

First things first, self esteem, if you don't feel like you are worth having the best, you will never have it because you can't accept that you deserve it!

Next is confidence, self esteem and confidence seem to be the same but they aren't. Self esteem is feeling good about you and loving yourself but without confidence those will take you no where. Confidence gets you to take risks, it makes you feel secure whilst taking your risks. Risk is the only way to get anywhere in life.

Morals, have your own set of morals and rules and stick with them. Don't let other people sway you because if you do, you're trying to be like them, and trying to be like others messes you up! Anyone who has ever became successful in life did it their OWN way, not by following others. You are you, own it, live it, love it.

The rest will follow. If you are true to you, love and respect you, and stay firm with what you want and do what you love to do NO ONE and nothing can stop you! It's as easy as that :)

You make your future happen, you decide, you are in control, some people don't know what to do with that much power so they give it up and let fear take over because it's easier. Life shouldn't be easy, if it's easy then man it becomes SO boring!!

Work on the basics of you, who you are, and work on loving yourself!
Then you can start to work on your dreams!

A kiss for you!!!!
Love,
KissyNicole

Make a list

Try making an extremely long list of everything you want in life
From small to really big things
Make a list!

It could be "Keep my room cleaner for longer" or
"become a millionaire"

small and big should go on this list
write it all down with check marks next to each one

pick one to accomplish in a week, month, whatever time you set, then stick with it!

this way all your focus is on one thing at a time instead of a bunch of things that will mess up the process

I believe you can make every single thing on your list happen, now you believe it too!
A kiss for you!

CHANEL

Anyone see the new Cruise 2011/12 collection from CHANEL??
They make me want to stroll along the beach in a coverup so badly!
Imagine long legs, high heels, a black and white swim suit, a long flowing cover up, thick eye liner, and an oversized bag all strolling by the beach. Fun!

CHANEL is so effortless in looking so classy and elegant, never too much, never too plain, just pure beautiful
When I can, that's definitely the first place I'm going shopping at!!!!

Anyone else a fashion freak?

Muah!

Any questions are welcome! I'm here for you :)
kiss kiss!

email me: kissynicole2@live.com

Relationships

Ever wonder if you are in the right relationship?
It sucks not to be able to take a look at your relationship from an outsider's viewpoint
"Are you happy?" may be the easy question to ask but it's never that simple is it?

How invested are you in the relationship? All in or only giving some of yourself

Do your friends and family see that you are a better person with this significant other?

Can you picture your life without them?

How many times do you feel bad, cry, or are just stressed because of this person?
General rule of thumb is if you are upset all the time then it isn't right
That may be hard to accept but once you do you can start to heal, repair some emotional damage, and eventually move on and enjoy someone else that will make you feel great!

Do you two enjoy things together? Similar hobbies?
You need things in common to sustain a relationship

Look at your answers to these questions and really evaluate how this love is affecting you
Remember YOU are very important too, sometimes it's ok to be a little selfish

Try writing down a pro-con list of all the qualities and situations you've had with this person and see which side is larger. Writing it down can help show you from an outside view rather than all in your head.

Try using logic and emotion in a balanced way. Your feelings will certainly put up a battle in a relationship but don't let them get the better of you, you're in charge here!

Remember it's not all about if you love the person or not because it's easy to love someone that is completely wrong for you!

Ask me for relationship help! I'm super glad to advise anyone!
Email me: kissynicole2@live.com

Instant De-Stressers!

• Go outside
• Call/text someone you love
• Listen to calming music
• Write down what you are stressed about on a piece of paper then burn it!
• Draw some curvy lines (doesn't have to be a masterpiece)
• Take a few really slow deep breaths
• Take a steamy hot bath
• Close your eyes and imagine a beach, forest, any calming nature scene
• Make up plans on how to change that stressful situation
• Play or pet your doggy!
• Eat some hot soup and watch a funny movie
• Check out YouTube for some relaxing nature videos
• Think positive thoughts, think about what you love, think about who you love, think on a good thought and don't let it go!
• Email me! haha

Wants

The weirdest thing I've ever seen has to be when people want something and they don't do anything about it
People are so inhibited by something that tells them "you can't do that"
Where does that come from? Maybe our parents, friends, events in life.
One bad experience can scar someone for life
One little thing can become that voice in your head that tells you NO

A horrible part of this problem is sometimes we don't even know it
We accept "no" more than we accept "yes" because it's easier
Yes it's easier to not do anything about what you want, but then why are you expecting your wants to magically appear?

They wont

Part of getting what you want is how you get there, that is half the fun already!

Figure out what you truly want, imagine having it, feel it, if it's really what you want, it will be SUPER easy to get it

The number one thing to get what you want isn't your ability or resources, it's getting rid of fear, getting rid of a voice in your head that says NO
This silly little problem can only hold you back!
Take a risk, do something crazy!
What is the worst that can happen? You won't die of embarrassment or failure will you? Nope it only makes you stronger, it only teaches you to do better.


Just let it go...... Your dreams and wants are CERTAINLY worth the effort
Make a change and get ready to be rewarded for it

A kiss for you!!

Here for you!

Number one! First post ever!
I've had a LOT of life experiences and because of that; one, I have a very personable way of helping people get through their life issues, and two, this has made me very open minded.
Put the two together and you have a girl wanting to help others with her own insight.
My life's mission is to change someone else's life with what I have to offer; advice and a listening ear.


Feel free to ask me for help! I know the world can get too harsh sometimes...


So about me;
I love the beach, shopping, traveling, laughing, LOVE, and a huge handful of other things because I just love love love a lot in life! (and you should too!)


I consider myself a "modern hippie" love is all you need in life to be happy man haha


I like writing about fashion and all around everyday things we go through but everyone is too embarrassed to talk about! Ha


No question is too weird, too stupid, or too personal for me


My answers are as loving as a kiss, a kiss from me to you!
Ask me by email: kissynicole2@live.com