Been so long since I wrote something
Today is 9/11 and for any American that date sticks out in our minds so strongly
I feel like crying
I hope that those lost do not feel anymore pain or sorrow for what happened and they have successfully moved on
I hope that those living that were effected are able to live a happy life still
I really hope huge crisises like this do NOT happen again
I hope we all realize one day that we all are the same, same humans, same hearts
And because of that similarity we should stand together not apart
All we have to not feel alone is each other
I hope we learn to work together one day and then we will see how powerful we really can be
A Kiss For You
Love,
KissyNicole
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Sunday, September 11, 2011
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Follow Your Dreams
Anything you wanted to do but just never did it?
Have a secret passion for something but you never followed through with it?
Use all your time here on this earth chasing or doing what you love because if you don't
Then what's the point of even doing anything at all
Doing what you love makes your job not feel like a job
It makes all your time fun
It makes you feel fulfilled and happy
It is maybe the best thing you can do for yourself
so.......
DO IT
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Have a secret passion for something but you never followed through with it?
Use all your time here on this earth chasing or doing what you love because if you don't
Then what's the point of even doing anything at all
Doing what you love makes your job not feel like a job
It makes all your time fun
It makes you feel fulfilled and happy
It is maybe the best thing you can do for yourself
so.......
DO IT
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Monday, August 15, 2011
Kids Are Smarter Than Adults
Kids are younger than us yet they know more than us
They live happy carefree adventurous lives
while most of us struggle to be content and stress free
We have a lot to learn from children for sure!
But remember we were all kids once, we have the experience and knowledge to go back to that state of mind
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Email me, let me know what your thinking! kissynicole2@live.com
Answer my poll question located on the ride side of my bloggity, pwease ---->
They live happy carefree adventurous lives
while most of us struggle to be content and stress free
We have a lot to learn from children for sure!
But remember we were all kids once, we have the experience and knowledge to go back to that state of mind
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Email me, let me know what your thinking! kissynicole2@live.com
Answer my poll question located on the ride side of my bloggity, pwease ---->
Opinions
Everyone has an opinion about everything
Everyone has a specific view on a subject
There are millions of different opinions out there
So in the big scheme of things, who is really right?
Can anyone ever be right?
Is there such a thing as being "right" on something?
I say listen to yourself and what you think, that is the best way to live your life
And if people think you are "wrong" there will always be a handful of others thinking you're "right"
So be happy doing your own thing!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
P.S. How about this: WE ALL ARE RIGHT! Now there is nothing to fight about ha
Everyone has a specific view on a subject
There are millions of different opinions out there
So in the big scheme of things, who is really right?
Can anyone ever be right?
Is there such a thing as being "right" on something?
I say listen to yourself and what you think, that is the best way to live your life
And if people think you are "wrong" there will always be a handful of others thinking you're "right"
So be happy doing your own thing!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
P.S. How about this: WE ALL ARE RIGHT! Now there is nothing to fight about ha
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Remember
Remember that we are all
beautiful
amazing
funny
lovable
inspiring
intelligent
brave
to someone
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
beautiful
amazing
funny
lovable
inspiring
intelligent
brave
to someone
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Bad Situations
I'm going to lay it out for you
If you are in a bad situation that you are miserable being in you have options
Change the situation, move away or get a job so you can leave for example
And if you can't change the situation.....
Make it your decision to stop caring
Things can only effect you as much as you let it
Regain that control and stop caring, stop listening, zone out when this bad situation starts to give you stress
The same thing can only upset you so often
Then after a while when the situation doesn't change and you are still getting upset, then it becomes your fault
Take back the control you deserve
Be happy everyone!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
If you are in a bad situation that you are miserable being in you have options
Change the situation, move away or get a job so you can leave for example
And if you can't change the situation.....
Make it your decision to stop caring
Things can only effect you as much as you let it
Regain that control and stop caring, stop listening, zone out when this bad situation starts to give you stress
The same thing can only upset you so often
Then after a while when the situation doesn't change and you are still getting upset, then it becomes your fault
Take back the control you deserve
Be happy everyone!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Exercise
Just got done exercising and wow!
I am out of shape!
I bet you if you did some exercising too you would find that you too are out of shape as well
It seems so easy to just forget about exercising and go on with your lives
But honestly it is super important
Just exercising 3-4 times a week can knock out tons of diseases
It will keep you young!
Relieve stress!
Up your energy level
Help you look like a perfect 10 in a swimsuit
And most importantly it will make you feel so much better, mind and body
Take that time to exercise, in your own home even, there is no excuse!
Give yourself 20 minutes a day to improve your life
That's less time than one TV show!
Do whatever works for you and the benefits will be well worth it!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
I am out of shape!
I bet you if you did some exercising too you would find that you too are out of shape as well
It seems so easy to just forget about exercising and go on with your lives
But honestly it is super important
Just exercising 3-4 times a week can knock out tons of diseases
It will keep you young!
Relieve stress!
Up your energy level
Help you look like a perfect 10 in a swimsuit
And most importantly it will make you feel so much better, mind and body
Take that time to exercise, in your own home even, there is no excuse!
Give yourself 20 minutes a day to improve your life
That's less time than one TV show!
Do whatever works for you and the benefits will be well worth it!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Monday, August 8, 2011
Greener Grass
Listen up!
Never compare your life to others and go wishing you had their lives instead of yours
Because the grass is always going to be greener somewhere else
There will always be someone richer, more successful, happier, more beautiful than you, and more "SOMETHING" than you
Appreciate what you have because there could be someone out there wishing they had your life
Your house, your job, your kids
We all have lives worth envying by others!
Enjoy your own life, it's much more fun that way
(and guess what, by enjoying your own life, others will wish they had your life!)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Never compare your life to others and go wishing you had their lives instead of yours
Because the grass is always going to be greener somewhere else
There will always be someone richer, more successful, happier, more beautiful than you, and more "SOMETHING" than you
Appreciate what you have because there could be someone out there wishing they had your life
Your house, your job, your kids
We all have lives worth envying by others!
Enjoy your own life, it's much more fun that way
(and guess what, by enjoying your own life, others will wish they had your life!)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Break Up
Wow a break up is so hard to deal with!
It can even be in your favor yet still you find yourself missing that person all the time
It is like your mind thinks in "good" mode when you break up
All you can remember is the good things!!
But honestly there was a break up for a reason
And that reason needs to be accepted and believed to be truth or else your head will go crazy spinning around trying to get that person back
It is a sad thing to deal with but as one goes almost always another follows that makes you happy again :)
Keep hope alive that you will move on and don't try to move on as quickly as possible
Give yourself a good amount of time so that the next relationship isn't flawed by the old one
Email me if you need help during a break up!
A kiss for you! I love you!
Love,
KissyNicole
It can even be in your favor yet still you find yourself missing that person all the time
It is like your mind thinks in "good" mode when you break up
All you can remember is the good things!!
But honestly there was a break up for a reason
And that reason needs to be accepted and believed to be truth or else your head will go crazy spinning around trying to get that person back
It is a sad thing to deal with but as one goes almost always another follows that makes you happy again :)
Keep hope alive that you will move on and don't try to move on as quickly as possible
Give yourself a good amount of time so that the next relationship isn't flawed by the old one
Email me if you need help during a break up!
A kiss for you! I love you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Your Destiny
Hello!
I haven't written much in the last few days as I have been very sad about Amy Winehouse's death
As much as I hate it I always felt like it was her destiny to be great and then pass to join the other greats that have died young like Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, and Kurt Cobain
They all can finally be in peace and sing together :)
Anyways I could see in her eyes and through her music that she was a tortured soul, as am I
Maybe it was destiny for her to touch the world with her music
Which got me thinking about my own destiny
How about you? Do you feel you were meant to do something?
Hopefully whatever career you have is what you feel deep down you were meant to do, if not, change that immediately!
I believe we were all meant to do something, some talent, some devotion to something that we will have success in no matter what
We must follow that little voice inside us that tells us what we need to do
Find that thing that lights a fire in your heart and never let it go
So although Amy died young, she still showed the world her talent and changed the lives of millions with her music and unique sense of style
That was a HUGE accomplishment, and for that I love her
She will forever motivate me to go for it!
I hope to motivate another.....
And show the world that you aren't alone
And that we all can achieve extraordinary things by following what our heart tells us
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
I haven't written much in the last few days as I have been very sad about Amy Winehouse's death
As much as I hate it I always felt like it was her destiny to be great and then pass to join the other greats that have died young like Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, and Kurt Cobain
They all can finally be in peace and sing together :)
Anyways I could see in her eyes and through her music that she was a tortured soul, as am I
Maybe it was destiny for her to touch the world with her music
Which got me thinking about my own destiny
How about you? Do you feel you were meant to do something?
Hopefully whatever career you have is what you feel deep down you were meant to do, if not, change that immediately!
I believe we were all meant to do something, some talent, some devotion to something that we will have success in no matter what
We must follow that little voice inside us that tells us what we need to do
Find that thing that lights a fire in your heart and never let it go
So although Amy died young, she still showed the world her talent and changed the lives of millions with her music and unique sense of style
That was a HUGE accomplishment, and for that I love her
She will forever motivate me to go for it!
I hope to motivate another.....
And show the world that you aren't alone
And that we all can achieve extraordinary things by following what our heart tells us
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Ever Felt Truly Alone?
Have you ever felt truly alone?
Not just alone at the time but like really alone alone
No one to express your feelings to, no one to confide in
No one you can really ask for help
Well here is some good news!
We all feel like that sometimes
And I'm here to be that person to talk to
About anything you need too!!
Loneliness is the worst, trust me, I know....
So I have made myself available to anyone who needs it!
Shoot me an email about whatever
kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Not just alone at the time but like really alone alone
No one to express your feelings to, no one to confide in
No one you can really ask for help
Well here is some good news!
We all feel like that sometimes
And I'm here to be that person to talk to
About anything you need too!!
Loneliness is the worst, trust me, I know....
So I have made myself available to anyone who needs it!
Shoot me an email about whatever
kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Self Worth
So self worth
How do you see yourself?
You may think you have really good self worth but in reality you could be secretly putting yourself down
In everyday conversations we tend to make jokes about things and ourselves
And sometimes these jokes are actually negative to yourself
For example maybe making a joke about how awful your hair looks that day or joking about how badly you messed up on something
Yes, sometimes we truly are joking but then sometimes we are joking just to appear fine to others
Don't do that!
Make it a habit of catching those nasty little remarks you may have been thinking about you
They seem small and not worth the effort but really all that can build up and in turn effect your self worth
We have all these thoughts in one day, thousands!
And if we are joking or being serious and putting ourselves down that puts our whole life down
Our life around us comes from us!
And if the starting point is bad, the rest will follow
Feeling good about you is the most fundamental part of having an amazing life
No one wants to feel bad about themselves! It is a waste of your time
So look at you
Look at what you think of you
And if there is anything you don't like
Correct it!! Because the only one who can is you!
And take it slow and simple so you won't be overwhelmed :)
P.S. If you need any help on how to fix a specific thing about yourself, feel free to write me an email kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
How do you see yourself?
You may think you have really good self worth but in reality you could be secretly putting yourself down
In everyday conversations we tend to make jokes about things and ourselves
And sometimes these jokes are actually negative to yourself
For example maybe making a joke about how awful your hair looks that day or joking about how badly you messed up on something
Yes, sometimes we truly are joking but then sometimes we are joking just to appear fine to others
Don't do that!
Make it a habit of catching those nasty little remarks you may have been thinking about you
They seem small and not worth the effort but really all that can build up and in turn effect your self worth
We have all these thoughts in one day, thousands!
And if we are joking or being serious and putting ourselves down that puts our whole life down
Our life around us comes from us!
And if the starting point is bad, the rest will follow
Feeling good about you is the most fundamental part of having an amazing life
No one wants to feel bad about themselves! It is a waste of your time
So look at you
Look at what you think of you
And if there is anything you don't like
Correct it!! Because the only one who can is you!
And take it slow and simple so you won't be overwhelmed :)
P.S. If you need any help on how to fix a specific thing about yourself, feel free to write me an email kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
My Birthday
It is my birthday today, whoo hoo!!
It's kind of funny how we celebrate them and mark every year we get older
We should base our success on how healthy we are as we age! Not by a silly number
Being healthy can not be taken for granted
It is so precious even though we don't really pay attention to it
It could take years of poor eating and bad habits to affect your health
but when it does, it won't be pretty!
Just because it isn't an instant thing, don't be dumb about your health
Imagine being older hooked up to a breathing tank, relying on it to simply breathe!
then imagine being older jogging in a beautiful forest, breathing in that clean air
Which do you want?
And here is the truth if you want to jog in a forest later in life ha
You need to start now, start eating better and exercising
It really helps your mood, how you feel, overall health, everything!
You will feel amazing if you give up KFC more often lol
There is no two ways about it!
Either do your body good or suffer some painful uncomfortable consequences
We all know what we should be doing for our health
Now let's just DO it already!!!!!
A kiss for you!
I know my health isn't so great and I'm young so I will be working on that now most definitely
Join me! Email me with your progress or with questions!
Love,
KissyNicole
It's kind of funny how we celebrate them and mark every year we get older
We should base our success on how healthy we are as we age! Not by a silly number
Being healthy can not be taken for granted
It is so precious even though we don't really pay attention to it
It could take years of poor eating and bad habits to affect your health
but when it does, it won't be pretty!
Just because it isn't an instant thing, don't be dumb about your health
Imagine being older hooked up to a breathing tank, relying on it to simply breathe!
then imagine being older jogging in a beautiful forest, breathing in that clean air
Which do you want?
And here is the truth if you want to jog in a forest later in life ha
You need to start now, start eating better and exercising
It really helps your mood, how you feel, overall health, everything!
You will feel amazing if you give up KFC more often lol
There is no two ways about it!
Either do your body good or suffer some painful uncomfortable consequences
We all know what we should be doing for our health
Now let's just DO it already!!!!!
A kiss for you!
I know my health isn't so great and I'm young so I will be working on that now most definitely
Join me! Email me with your progress or with questions!
Love,
KissyNicole
Monday, July 11, 2011
Love Lost
Losing someone you love like in a break up can be hard to cope with
Sometimes break ups are ok and you can deal with it because you know it's the right thing to do
But sometimes you watch that person over the course of your relationship fall out of love with you
Like a slow-motion car crash
Your gut is wrenching with anticipation of what you know will happen
That can be one of the most painful things to go through because of how slow and torturous it is!
Good news is that you're not alone if this has happened to you
And the other good news is that it isn't the end of the world
This person may have been "One in a million....." to you
But guess what, you have 999,999 more people to check out too! ha
No really! There are WAY more than just nine hundred thousand people out there
There are millions!
And guess what else, those are some pretty good odds to find another that fits you better than the last one did
So take your time and start looking for that better individual that will make you happier than you've ever been!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Sometimes break ups are ok and you can deal with it because you know it's the right thing to do
But sometimes you watch that person over the course of your relationship fall out of love with you
Like a slow-motion car crash
Your gut is wrenching with anticipation of what you know will happen
That can be one of the most painful things to go through because of how slow and torturous it is!
Good news is that you're not alone if this has happened to you
And the other good news is that it isn't the end of the world
This person may have been "One in a million....." to you
But guess what, you have 999,999 more people to check out too! ha
No really! There are WAY more than just nine hundred thousand people out there
There are millions!
And guess what else, those are some pretty good odds to find another that fits you better than the last one did
So take your time and start looking for that better individual that will make you happier than you've ever been!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Word Journal
Here is a great tip to keep your goals in sight and keep you in a good mood!
Take some sort of scrapbook, Just a book with a lot of blank white pages
Everyday write in it words
The words can be colorful or plain, whatever suits you
Make one page about your dreams
It could say "Fashion career, family, nice house etc etc"
Use words to describe the life you want (make them all positive)
Then everyday use your creativity to write a page with just random words on things you like or would like!
And I don't mean writing as in writing a story
I mean just one phrase each, floating around, like the dream board only with just words!
Then whenever you want you can look at these words and visualize them in your mind
Seeing what you want outside your head helps you stay focused on them!
This scrapbook can be a private little pick-me-up and reminder of your future :)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Take some sort of scrapbook, Just a book with a lot of blank white pages
Everyday write in it words
The words can be colorful or plain, whatever suits you
Make one page about your dreams
It could say "Fashion career, family, nice house etc etc"
Use words to describe the life you want (make them all positive)
Then everyday use your creativity to write a page with just random words on things you like or would like!
And I don't mean writing as in writing a story
I mean just one phrase each, floating around, like the dream board only with just words!
Then whenever you want you can look at these words and visualize them in your mind
Seeing what you want outside your head helps you stay focused on them!
This scrapbook can be a private little pick-me-up and reminder of your future :)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Depression Is Conquerable
Depression, actual depression, not just "being sad" is tough
It can consume a person and lead to their death in some cases
And it isn't really talked about all that often
but why? a lot of us have had that really dark time in our lives
this is a some what common thing here!
What is hard though is when you can't get out of it
When you really have lost all hope
Lost friends, lost family, lost everything that ever meant anything to you
People that go through that need help
I have had my own problems with depression for maybe 5 years?
It was such a dark time I can't remember time, a month could feel like years and time was just all a mess
Everything was a mess!
It is the worst place to be in
A kind of prisoner in your own mind
Your negative or numbed out thoughts control you
And they can get this unrelenting hold on your spirit
Like you are not you anymore
Like you died and were no longer there
So awful!
No one should stay stuck in that
The amazing news though is that it can be conquered
And the new outlook on life you will have after will be so much more valuable than people who have not experienced this profound hurdle
The first few steps have to be reaching out to someone, anyone, even a stranger, maybe even me!
You are worth the effort it takes to cure the depression
And it is not as hard as it may seem, I promise
Depression is not this impossible thing to overcome
Don't look at it that way, Look at it in a temporary way like "this is terrible, but it will pass"
Be your own mirror
Look at how you think
Look at how you speak to others
Look at your life
Recognize that, that life is not good for you and that it must change now
You can ask me for help with this issue or check out these two links to great information
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/depression/DS00175
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/depression_tips.htm
You don't have to be "diagnosed" to start trying to help yourself out
But as some advice, when you can not cure yourself, look to outside help like a doctor
Sometimes it's all just your darn hormones acting up in a weird way
But when it's all your thoughts, YOU have the power to change that and get better
Everyone deserves a happy life, everyone!
So start making the steps you need to take and just do it
I've done it and you can too!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Friday, July 8, 2011
A Wonderful Thought......
A wonderful thought just popped into my head.....
When striving for your biggest most amazing fantastic dreams that would make you the happiest person alive,
You don't need to know how you will get there
That's the beauty of the universe, it figures out the "how"
You just need to get going
Start going down that road to your goals and all these opportunities will appear
Let's say you got in your car and went on a random road trip to go somewhere amazing
But you didn't know exactly how to get there....
You would check for road signs along the way not try and predict where to turn on your own (we aren't all psychic!)
That's half the fun of life, not knowing!
Quit trying to predict the signs and just get going!!!
A kiss for you!! Email me! Don't be shy! kissynicole2@live.com
Love you always,
KissyNicole
When striving for your biggest most amazing fantastic dreams that would make you the happiest person alive,
You don't need to know how you will get there
That's the beauty of the universe, it figures out the "how"
You just need to get going
Start going down that road to your goals and all these opportunities will appear
Let's say you got in your car and went on a random road trip to go somewhere amazing
But you didn't know exactly how to get there....
You would check for road signs along the way not try and predict where to turn on your own (we aren't all psychic!)
That's half the fun of life, not knowing!
Quit trying to predict the signs and just get going!!!
A kiss for you!! Email me! Don't be shy! kissynicole2@live.com
Love you always,
KissyNicole
You Are Your Biggest Enemy
Have you ever felt like you are your biggest enemy?
Sometimes we are just so mean to ourselves!
We think bad thoughts about our looks, our way of speaking, and our work performance-just to name a few
We can hold ourselves back from doing the things we really want to
Maybe with words like "Everybody will think I am weird"
Which is so odd because did everybody say "You are so weird if you do that...."
Not really
So why do we want to bully ourselves all the time?
Where does that come from?
It's almost like feeling good about yourself has become so rare in our society
It shouldn't be that way
We shouldn't be so hard on ourselves, it makes us unhappy!!
If you are your own biggest advocate then looking for other people's approval is unnecessary
If you took the time to build yourself up and make yourself feel good then nobody can come in the way of your happiness
Try to stop that pattern of thinking where all you do is tear yourself down
Listen to your thoughts and zone in on those pesky negative ones and replace them with good ones!
Controlling how you think takes practice because we are so stuck in our ways
And none of this is to be ashamed of, we all harshly critizice ourselves! You're not alone
Stop holding a grudge against yourself for making mistakes! We all make mistakes constantly, there's no avoiding that
Love yourself and everyone else will too! (sounds cheesy but it's absolutely true)
People don't want to have to be a mirror instead of a friend and constantly remind you you don't suck
Just love you and be you!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, July 7, 2011
The Ocean
The ocean is very beautiful to me
It is my place of calm and that "Ahh I'm home..." feeling
The ocean's sounds of the waves crashing
The ocean's smells of the salty water
The ocean's look of the pure blue that goes on forever and ever
All this calms me, makes me happy
It is my sancutary
What is yours?
And if you don't have one, get one fast because they can really come in handy when you need to get away from the everyday stuff we all go through
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
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