When Is It Over?

How can we know when a relationship is over?

That sounds silly and easy but come on, figuring out when to call it quits is nearly impossible

And the longer a bad relationship gets drawn out, the more it hurts

Good thing is- almost all of us have battled with this

Here are some questions to ask yourself to help determine, Over or not?

• Are you more often happy or sad when with this person?
• Is it easy to get into fights?
• Does he/she normally really hurt your feelings and not even seem to care?
• Do you see a long future with this person?
• Do you share similar values/life goals?

In the end it's only going to be you and that other person deciding what to do

No one can really have an opinion about it because, they aren't in the relationship too!

So don't let what others say bother you

And if you are REALLY in a sticky situation (the relationship is 50% good 50% bad)

Ask yourself

Is the 50% bad worth going through to get the 50% good part?

If yes then congrats!

Remember: don't stick around in a relationship that you know isn't getting any better

A Kiss For You!

Love,

KissyNicole

P.S.- No one has to be shunned out of your life if you decide they are not good for you, there always is the option of being just friends :)

Negative People

Do you know anyone that can just turn any situation into a crappy one?

They are absolutely the most annoying people to be around!! All they care about is drama

Not matter what, it is like it's physically impossible for them to just laugh something off and get over it

Keep yourself AWAY from people like that

and if you ARE like that, STOP immediately, you're pushing people away from you

Everyone wants to be around people that  make them laugh and that inspire them to see the good in everything

Be that person or get to know people like that

Who you surround yourself with greatly effects you

So.....

Be around good and good will come to you!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Follow Your Dreams

Anything you wanted to do but just never did it?

Have a secret passion for something but you never followed through with it?

Use all your time here on this earth chasing or doing what you love because if you don't
Then what's the point of even doing anything at all

Doing what you love makes your job not feel like a job

It makes all your time fun

It makes you feel fulfilled and happy

It is maybe the best thing you can do for yourself

so.......

DO IT

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Opinions

Everyone has an opinion about everything

Everyone has a specific view on a subject

There are millions of different opinions out there

So in the big scheme of things, who is really right?

Can anyone ever be right?

Is there such a thing as being "right" on something?

I say listen to yourself and what you think, that is the best way to live your life

And if people think you are "wrong" there will always be a handful of others thinking you're "right"

So be happy doing your own thing!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

P.S. How about this: WE ALL ARE RIGHT! Now there is nothing to fight about ha

Remember

Remember that we are all

beautiful

amazing

funny

lovable

inspiring

intelligent

brave

to someone


A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Bad Situations

I'm going to lay it out for you

If you are in a bad situation that you are miserable being in you have options

Change the situation, move away or get a job so you can leave for example

And if you can't change the situation.....

Make it your decision to stop caring

Things can only effect you as much as you let it

Regain that control and stop caring, stop listening, zone out when this bad situation starts to give you stress

The same thing can only upset you so often

Then after a while when the situation doesn't change and you are still getting upset, then it becomes your fault

Take back the control you deserve

Be happy everyone!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Some Positivity For You!

Hello!

Guess what!

You are amazing! 

No one else is like you

Nothing lasts forever

People who hate are miserable on the inside

The weather is nice today

Everyone has a talent of some kind

You are able to read this right now

As long as you live, there will always be a new day to try it again :)

At least one person loves you, and that's me!

Never feel alone, email me: kissynicole2@live.com
follow on twitter: @Kissy_Nicole

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Exercise

Just got done exercising and wow!

I am out of shape!

I bet you if you did some exercising too you would find that you too are out of shape as well

It seems so easy to just forget about exercising and go on with your lives

But honestly it is super important

Just exercising 3-4 times a week can knock out tons of diseases

It will keep you young!

Relieve stress!

Up your energy level

Help you look like a perfect 10 in a swimsuit

And most importantly it will make you feel so much better, mind and body

Take that time to exercise, in your own home even, there is no excuse!

Give yourself 20 minutes a day to improve your life

That's less time than one TV show!

Do whatever works for you and the benefits will be well worth it!

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Ever Felt Truly Alone?

Have you ever felt truly alone?

Not just alone at the time but like really alone alone

No one to express your feelings to, no one to confide in

No one you can really ask for help

Well here is some good news!

We all feel like that sometimes

And I'm here to be that person to talk to

About anything you need too!!

Loneliness is the worst, trust me, I know....

So I have made myself available to anyone who needs it!

Shoot me an email about whatever
kissynicole2@live.com

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Self Worth

So self worth

How do you see yourself?

You may think you have really good self worth but in reality you could be secretly putting yourself down

In everyday conversations we tend to make jokes about things and ourselves

And sometimes these jokes are actually negative to yourself

For example maybe making a joke about how awful your hair looks that day or joking about how badly you messed up on something

Yes, sometimes we truly are joking but then sometimes we are joking just to appear fine to others

Don't do that!


Make it a habit of catching those nasty little remarks you may have been thinking about you

They seem small and not worth the effort but really all that can build up and in turn effect your self worth

We have all these thoughts in one day, thousands!

And if we are joking or being serious and putting ourselves down that puts our whole life down

Our life around us comes from us!
And if the starting point is bad, the rest will follow

Feeling good about you is the most fundamental part of having an amazing life


No one wants to feel bad about themselves! It is a waste of your time

So look at you

Look at what you think of you

And if there is anything you don't like

Correct it!! Because the only one who can is you!

And take it slow and simple so you won't be overwhelmed :)

P.S. If you need any help on how to fix a specific thing about yourself, feel free to write me an email kissynicole2@live.com

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole