When Is It Over?

How can we know when a relationship is over?

That sounds silly and easy but come on, figuring out when to call it quits is nearly impossible

And the longer a bad relationship gets drawn out, the more it hurts

Good thing is- almost all of us have battled with this

Here are some questions to ask yourself to help determine, Over or not?

• Are you more often happy or sad when with this person?
• Is it easy to get into fights?
• Does he/she normally really hurt your feelings and not even seem to care?
• Do you see a long future with this person?
• Do you share similar values/life goals?

In the end it's only going to be you and that other person deciding what to do

No one can really have an opinion about it because, they aren't in the relationship too!

So don't let what others say bother you

And if you are REALLY in a sticky situation (the relationship is 50% good 50% bad)

Ask yourself

Is the 50% bad worth going through to get the 50% good part?

If yes then congrats!

Remember: don't stick around in a relationship that you know isn't getting any better

A Kiss For You!

Love,

KissyNicole

P.S.- No one has to be shunned out of your life if you decide they are not good for you, there always is the option of being just friends :)

Honesty

Why is it so hard for people to be HONEST?

Being honest is almost so rare now a days that I just don't even want to trust anymore

People need to teach their kids when they are young to tell the truth no matter what

Not being honest is where girls get their hearts broken, where people get into even deeper trouble, and where trust is lost for a very long time

It is silly to not be truthful

Even to people you don't know

It's a very admirable quality to have, so start possessing it TODAY


Own up for what you've done, or make someone see the real you, all is possible with telling the truth

Save someone heartbreak over finding out you're a liar by NOT doing it

One thing is certainly agreeable by everyone: 


We all would like some more honesty more often!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Negative People

Do you know anyone that can just turn any situation into a crappy one?

They are absolutely the most annoying people to be around!! All they care about is drama

Not matter what, it is like it's physically impossible for them to just laugh something off and get over it

Keep yourself AWAY from people like that

and if you ARE like that, STOP immediately, you're pushing people away from you

Everyone wants to be around people that  make them laugh and that inspire them to see the good in everything

Be that person or get to know people like that

Who you surround yourself with greatly effects you

So.....

Be around good and good will come to you!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Bad Situations

I'm going to lay it out for you

If you are in a bad situation that you are miserable being in you have options

Change the situation, move away or get a job so you can leave for example

And if you can't change the situation.....

Make it your decision to stop caring

Things can only effect you as much as you let it

Regain that control and stop caring, stop listening, zone out when this bad situation starts to give you stress

The same thing can only upset you so often

Then after a while when the situation doesn't change and you are still getting upset, then it becomes your fault

Take back the control you deserve

Be happy everyone!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Hello Again ;)

So I haven't been writing posts for a while, sorry!

There have been lots of things to sort out in my head

Relationships, Love, Friends, My Self Worth....

All flooding in at once!

Ever have that feeling?

The feeling where life throws a whole bunch of things your way and your head is just spinning from all the new information

The main thing I want to focus on is our own self worth

I believe a huge part of this comes from our parents and how high up on the pedestal they put us

At a young age if you believe you aren't worth anything, then you keep thinking that

Even if it's in the very back of your mind, it still can be there

And not just parents, anyone who put us down and we accepted it as truth

But listen to where your self worth is coming from, it usually is negative!

Stop that negative process!
We CAN do what we want most in life
and we WILL


nothing is stopping you but yourself!


More on this later!! :)

Self Esteem Boost

Write a list of all the things you like about yourself
"Nice hair, pretty eyes, good sense of humor....."

They can even be small things like "I"m a tidy person"

Write what you like about your looks


Your personality


Your accomplishments


Your goals


Write everything good about all that is you!

Your self esteem will be through the roof when you realize your list is getting pretty big! haha

Keep going until you have filled the page up
Then keep this list to look at later when you're feeling down

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

A Wonderful Thought......

A wonderful thought just popped into my head.....

When striving for your biggest most amazing fantastic dreams that would make you the happiest person alive,

You don't need to know how you will get there

That's the beauty of the universe, it figures out the "how"

You just need to get going

Start going down that road to your goals and all these opportunities will appear

Let's say you got in your car and went on a random road trip to go somewhere amazing
But you didn't know exactly how to get there....
You would check for road signs along the way not try and predict where to turn on your own (we aren't all psychic!)
That's half the fun of life, not knowing!

Quit trying to predict the signs and just get going!!!

A kiss for you!! Email me! Don't be shy! kissynicole2@live.com

Love you always,
KissyNicole

Parents

Parents can become the number one hindrance when trying to follow your dreams

They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky

Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."

That isn't very nice to hear is it?

It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things

But you know what?

Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love

Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too

Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want

But you will not be the audience anymore

Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Help Someone

Why do people love to hate on one another and make each other become isolated?

It doesn't get anyone anywhere

It just makes someone else's life suck a little more

But come on we are all people, going through the same shit

We have the potential to change someone's life
Start lending a hand to someone who needs it
Show someone you care
Show them they aren't alone
Become a shoulder to cry on

That can mean so much to someone who needs it...

I'm here to cry to, talk to, ask stuff to, whatever

I love you all :)

A kiss for you!
Email me <3

Love,
KissyNicole

Present

One thing you must do to be happy is stay in the present

It is extremely easy to get stuck on the past or get stuck in the "what if" of the future
(I know I have plenty of times....)

That will leave you wanting more always because you can't change either of those

What you can change is the present

The present is right here ready to be mold into whatever you like

Sure future goals are great but not when it becomes obsession and fearful
And sure remembering the past is nice sometimes but again not when it's an obsession

How do you stay in the present? It can be quite tricky

Take a look at what is happening right now
You could be listening to a song, working, playing with your dog, just breathing
Focus on that exact thing you are doing
Don't let anything else come into mind

When you start to practice this and get a firm hold on your thoughts then you can be a much happier and calmer person
Focusing on one thing at a time helps to center yourself immensely

A kiss for you!

Remember you can not have control over the past or future but you do have control over the now

Love,
KissyNicole

Ask me!

Ask me anything you'd like!!!!

email: kissynicole2@live.com

muah!

What's The Worst?

What is the worst that can happen?
Really think about that.....
If you take a risk doing something what is the worst that can happen?
Somebody goes Saw style on you and kills you because you quit your job and opened a new business?
Hmmm.... Not very likely, sorry

Stop dreaming up worst case scenarios just to get out of being truly happy
Take a risk and enjoy the benefits
or fail and learn from your mistake

That's all folks, super simple, super easy!
Not everyone is out to get you!

Success doesn't happen without a lot of rejection and failing, it has to be that way or everybody would be succeeding in life because it was so easy right? right

Be the one that was courageous enough to go for what they want full speed!

"Be reckless enough to gamble all or nothing to follow your dreams" - John Galliano

This is your life! You're in control, have fun with the opportunity you've been given, which is being alive at this moment!

A kiss for you! Ask me any kind of questions by emailing me at kissynicole2@live.com

Love,
KissyNicole

Be You

Be the first at something
Create something
Let pure creativity flow out of you without holding back
When you do, that frees you, it makes you happy
It is an amazing rewarding experience to express yourself
What you have to offer is amazing, share it with the world!
No task is to large to accomplish, set your goals as high as you want
and go for it! Use your creativity to blast your way to your happiness!

There is a little thing inside you that you are AMAZING at
It could be writing, drawing, accounting, whatever
Let it out, it's there, you just have to let it out of you

A kiss for you...
Love,
KissyNicole

The Basics

Let's get back to the basics
Tons of people neglect the basics in life and then wonder why their lives aren't how they want it to be

First things first, self esteem, if you don't feel like you are worth having the best, you will never have it because you can't accept that you deserve it!

Next is confidence, self esteem and confidence seem to be the same but they aren't. Self esteem is feeling good about you and loving yourself but without confidence those will take you no where. Confidence gets you to take risks, it makes you feel secure whilst taking your risks. Risk is the only way to get anywhere in life.

Morals, have your own set of morals and rules and stick with them. Don't let other people sway you because if you do, you're trying to be like them, and trying to be like others messes you up! Anyone who has ever became successful in life did it their OWN way, not by following others. You are you, own it, live it, love it.

The rest will follow. If you are true to you, love and respect you, and stay firm with what you want and do what you love to do NO ONE and nothing can stop you! It's as easy as that :)

You make your future happen, you decide, you are in control, some people don't know what to do with that much power so they give it up and let fear take over because it's easier. Life shouldn't be easy, if it's easy then man it becomes SO boring!!

Work on the basics of you, who you are, and work on loving yourself!
Then you can start to work on your dreams!

A kiss for you!!!!
Love,
KissyNicole