Showing posts with label tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tips. Show all posts

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Honesty

Why is it so hard for people to be HONEST?

Being honest is almost so rare now a days that I just don't even want to trust anymore

People need to teach their kids when they are young to tell the truth no matter what

Not being honest is where girls get their hearts broken, where people get into even deeper trouble, and where trust is lost for a very long time

It is silly to not be truthful

Even to people you don't know

It's a very admirable quality to have, so start possessing it TODAY


Own up for what you've done, or make someone see the real you, all is possible with telling the truth

Save someone heartbreak over finding out you're a liar by NOT doing it

One thing is certainly agreeable by everyone: 


We all would like some more honesty more often!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Follow Your Dreams

Anything you wanted to do but just never did it?

Have a secret passion for something but you never followed through with it?

Use all your time here on this earth chasing or doing what you love because if you don't
Then what's the point of even doing anything at all

Doing what you love makes your job not feel like a job

It makes all your time fun

It makes you feel fulfilled and happy

It is maybe the best thing you can do for yourself

so.......

DO IT

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Monday, August 15, 2011

Kids Are Smarter Than Adults

Kids are younger than us yet they know more than us

They live happy carefree adventurous lives
while most of us struggle to be content and stress free

We have a lot to learn from children for sure!

But remember we were all kids once, we have the experience and knowledge to go back to that state of mind

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

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Thursday, August 11, 2011

Check Out Twitter

Twitter is a really fun social networking site that cuts out all the extra stuff like customizing profiles and "walls"

You can go on there and follow your favorite people

For example you can follow your favorite celebrity and see what they are saying instantly

Or you can also follow people who tweet inspirational quotes

That is a real mood booster!

That's very beneficial to your overall health to be reminded every so often of the good things in life

You can also connect with friends

It really is fun

I highly recommend creating a Twitter

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

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Disapproval From Others

Hello again!

This particular subject really affects everyone!

It can be so frustrating when others like family or friends don't approve of the way you want to live when you are perfectly happy!

They should be supportive and should love anything you do but....

We are all not so lucky sometimes

Then how can you deal with this disapproval?

If they are willing to shun you and never speak to you again then hey, they are not worth the effort

If they simply lecture you or act differently in a negative way because of this thing or person then there is something you can do

Come up with valid reasons as to why you want to continue this thing and present them to that person in a non-argumentative way

And if that will not convince them then simply stop talking about this subject which they disapprove of

It avoids an argument and you can find someone else to talk to and confide in

Don't lay all your chips in on one person because when they reject you it will be that much more devastating

Instead confide in more than one person so there will always be a listening ear!

If you can't modify someone else, modify yourself because you are all you have control over


and most importantly make it a good habit to surround yourself with supportive loving people, family or friends!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Bad Situations

I'm going to lay it out for you

If you are in a bad situation that you are miserable being in you have options

Change the situation, move away or get a job so you can leave for example

And if you can't change the situation.....

Make it your decision to stop caring

Things can only effect you as much as you let it

Regain that control and stop caring, stop listening, zone out when this bad situation starts to give you stress

The same thing can only upset you so often

Then after a while when the situation doesn't change and you are still getting upset, then it becomes your fault

Take back the control you deserve

Be happy everyone!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Pups

Anyone have a dog?

If you do you know how amazing it is!

They can be your very best friend, someone there to cry to, someone that won't judge just be there for you when you most need it

And it also makes it really fun to come home to that waggy tail and kisses!

If you don't have a doggy, I suggest going out and getting one as soon as possible

And if money is an issue, get a smaller dog, less food to buy, less poop to pick up

It's a win win!

Dogs help you live longer, they relieve tons of stress and they often do silly little things that will make you burst out laughing

Seriously consider getting a puppy!
Or thank your little guy that he is already with you, I know I'm thankful!

A kiss for you!

Love
KissyNicole

Monday, August 8, 2011

Greener Grass

Listen up!

Never compare your life to others and go wishing you had their lives instead of yours

Because the grass is always going to be greener somewhere else

There will always be someone richer, more successful, happier, more beautiful than you, and more "SOMETHING" than you

Appreciate what you have because there could be someone out there wishing they had your life
Your house, your job, your kids

We all have lives worth envying by others!
Enjoy your own life, it's much more fun that way


(and guess what, by enjoying your own life, others will wish they had your life!)

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

The News And Negativity

Does anyone else see how negative the news is?

It is like they are incapable of reporting the good things that happen

For example recently I have heard the word "debt" maybe a million times on the news
They can not stop talking about how bad the economy is!

If you want to watch TV I suggest you watch happy things

By surrounding ourselves with words like "debt", "death" and other negative things then it subconsciously puts a dark cloud over us

Even if things aren't directly effecting you, our subconscious is still listening and soaks information up like a sponge

Keep the negative things out by making sure you are surrounding yourself with good things like comedies, good friends, pretty music, anything that creates a happy feeling for you

Do this and you will feel much healthier and happier instantly!

A kiss for you!!

Email me: kissynicole2@live.com

Love,
KissyNicole

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Ever Felt Truly Alone?

Have you ever felt truly alone?

Not just alone at the time but like really alone alone

No one to express your feelings to, no one to confide in

No one you can really ask for help

Well here is some good news!

We all feel like that sometimes

And I'm here to be that person to talk to

About anything you need too!!

Loneliness is the worst, trust me, I know....

So I have made myself available to anyone who needs it!

Shoot me an email about whatever
kissynicole2@live.com

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

My Birthday

It is my birthday today, whoo hoo!!
It's kind of funny how we celebrate them and mark every year we get older

We should base our success on how healthy we are as we age! Not by a silly number

Being healthy can not be taken for granted
It is so precious even though we don't really pay attention to it

It could take years of poor eating and bad habits to affect your health
but when it does, it won't be pretty!

Just because it isn't an instant thing, don't be dumb about your health

Imagine being older hooked up to a breathing tank, relying on it to simply breathe!

then imagine being older jogging in a beautiful forest, breathing in that clean air

Which do you want?

And here is the truth if you want to jog in a forest later in life ha
You need to start now, start eating better and exercising

It really helps your mood, how you feel, overall health, everything!
You will feel amazing if you give up KFC more often lol

There is no two ways about it!
Either do your body good or suffer some painful uncomfortable consequences

We all know what we should be doing for our health
Now let's just DO it already!!!!!

A kiss for you! 


I know my health isn't so great and I'm young so I will be working on that now most definitely


Join me! Email me with your progress or with questions!


Love,
KissyNicole

Monday, July 11, 2011

Love Lost

Losing someone you love like in a break up can be hard to cope with

Sometimes break ups are ok and you can deal with it because you know it's the right thing to do

But sometimes you watch that person over the course of your relationship fall out of love with you

Like a slow-motion car crash

Your gut is wrenching with anticipation of what you know will happen

That can be one of the most painful things to go through because of how slow and torturous it is!

Good news is that you're not alone if this has happened to you
And the other good news is that it isn't the end of the world

This person may have been "One in a million....." to you
But guess what, you have 999,999 more people to check out too! ha

No really! There are WAY more than just nine hundred thousand people out there
There are millions!

And guess what else, those are some pretty good odds to find another that fits you better than the last one did

So take your time and start looking for that better individual that will make you happier than you've ever been!

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Sunday, July 10, 2011

Word Journal

Here is a great tip to keep your goals in sight and keep you in a good mood!

Take some sort of scrapbook, Just a book with a lot of blank white pages

Everyday write in it words

The words can be colorful or plain, whatever suits you

Make one page about your dreams
It could say "Fashion career, family, nice house etc etc"

Use words to describe the life you want (make them all positive)

Then everyday use your creativity to write a page with just random words on things you like or would like!

And I don't mean writing as in writing a story

I mean just one phrase each, floating around, like the dream board only with just words!

Then whenever you want you can look at these words and visualize them in your mind

Seeing what you want outside your head helps you stay focused on them!

This scrapbook can be a private little pick-me-up and reminder of your future :)

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Friday, July 8, 2011

Free Advice!!

I give free personal advice to anyone that emails me! :)
Love you!
KissyNicole

You Are Your Biggest Enemy



Have you ever felt like you are your biggest enemy?


Sometimes we are just so mean to ourselves!


We think bad thoughts about our looks, our way of speaking, and our work performance-just to name a few
We can hold ourselves back from doing the things we really want to
Maybe with words like "Everybody will think I am weird"
Which is so odd because did everybody say "You are so weird if you do that...."


Not really


So why do we want to bully ourselves all the time?
Where does that come from?


It's almost like feeling good about yourself has become so rare in our society


It shouldn't be that way


We shouldn't be so hard on ourselves, it makes us unhappy!!


If you are your own biggest advocate then looking for other people's approval is unnecessary


If you took the time to build yourself up and make yourself feel good then nobody can come in the way of your happiness
Try to stop that pattern of thinking where all you do is tear yourself down
Listen to your thoughts and zone in on those pesky negative ones and replace them with good ones!


Controlling how you think takes practice because we are so stuck in our ways


And none of this is to be ashamed of, we all harshly critizice ourselves! You're not alone


Stop holding a grudge against yourself for making mistakes! We all make mistakes constantly, there's no avoiding that


Love yourself and everyone else will too! (sounds cheesy but it's absolutely true)
People don't want to have to be a mirror instead of a friend and constantly remind you you don't suck


Just love you and be you!


A kiss for you!


Love,
KissyNicole



Thursday, July 7, 2011

The Ocean


The ocean is very beautiful to me
It is my place of calm and that "Ahh I'm home..." feeling

The ocean's sounds of the waves crashing

The ocean's smells of the salty water

The ocean's look of the pure blue that goes on forever and ever


All this calms me, makes me happy
It is my sancutary

What is yours?
And if you don't have one, get one fast because they can really come in handy when you need to get away from the everyday stuff we all go through

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Take A Look

Take a look at your life
Look at where you live
Who you are surrounded by
What job you have

Look at all aspects of  your life and what the reality is

Then look at each thing you wish your life was like

Compare the two and see what you can change to make the "reality" list look just like the "dream life" list

Breaking down each goal into smaller goals makes it easier to accomplish!

Set little goals for yourself and you are much more likely to succeed

I hope you all succeed! A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Parents

Parents can become the number one hindrance when trying to follow your dreams

They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky

Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."

That isn't very nice to hear is it?

It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things

But you know what?

Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love

Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too

Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want

But you will not be the audience anymore

Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Help Someone

Why do people love to hate on one another and make each other become isolated?

It doesn't get anyone anywhere

It just makes someone else's life suck a little more

But come on we are all people, going through the same shit

We have the potential to change someone's life
Start lending a hand to someone who needs it
Show someone you care
Show them they aren't alone
Become a shoulder to cry on

That can mean so much to someone who needs it...

I'm here to cry to, talk to, ask stuff to, whatever

I love you all :)

A kiss for you!
Email me <3

Love,
KissyNicole

Hmmm

The world is so beautiful if you just open your eyes to see it

Kiss for you!

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MUAH!! <3