Listen up!
Never compare your life to others and go wishing you had their lives instead of yours
Because the grass is always going to be greener somewhere else
There will always be someone richer, more successful, happier, more beautiful than you, and more "SOMETHING" than you
Appreciate what you have because there could be someone out there wishing they had your life
Your house, your job, your kids
We all have lives worth envying by others!
Enjoy your own life, it's much more fun that way
(and guess what, by enjoying your own life, others will wish they had your life!)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Showing posts with label wants. Show all posts
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Monday, August 8, 2011
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Self Worth
So self worth
How do you see yourself?
You may think you have really good self worth but in reality you could be secretly putting yourself down
In everyday conversations we tend to make jokes about things and ourselves
And sometimes these jokes are actually negative to yourself
For example maybe making a joke about how awful your hair looks that day or joking about how badly you messed up on something
Yes, sometimes we truly are joking but then sometimes we are joking just to appear fine to others
Don't do that!
Make it a habit of catching those nasty little remarks you may have been thinking about you
They seem small and not worth the effort but really all that can build up and in turn effect your self worth
We have all these thoughts in one day, thousands!
And if we are joking or being serious and putting ourselves down that puts our whole life down
Our life around us comes from us!
And if the starting point is bad, the rest will follow
Feeling good about you is the most fundamental part of having an amazing life
No one wants to feel bad about themselves! It is a waste of your time
So look at you
Look at what you think of you
And if there is anything you don't like
Correct it!! Because the only one who can is you!
And take it slow and simple so you won't be overwhelmed :)
P.S. If you need any help on how to fix a specific thing about yourself, feel free to write me an email kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
How do you see yourself?
You may think you have really good self worth but in reality you could be secretly putting yourself down
In everyday conversations we tend to make jokes about things and ourselves
And sometimes these jokes are actually negative to yourself
For example maybe making a joke about how awful your hair looks that day or joking about how badly you messed up on something
Yes, sometimes we truly are joking but then sometimes we are joking just to appear fine to others
Don't do that!
Make it a habit of catching those nasty little remarks you may have been thinking about you
They seem small and not worth the effort but really all that can build up and in turn effect your self worth
We have all these thoughts in one day, thousands!
And if we are joking or being serious and putting ourselves down that puts our whole life down
Our life around us comes from us!
And if the starting point is bad, the rest will follow
Feeling good about you is the most fundamental part of having an amazing life
No one wants to feel bad about themselves! It is a waste of your time
So look at you
Look at what you think of you
And if there is anything you don't like
Correct it!! Because the only one who can is you!
And take it slow and simple so you won't be overwhelmed :)
P.S. If you need any help on how to fix a specific thing about yourself, feel free to write me an email kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Learn A New Language
Wouldn't it be really cool to learn a new language?
That can seem like a hard task but then how do others do it?
Find some free software online to teach you and try and learn one new thing a day
By only learning one or two things a day you can not feel so overwhelmed by learning this complex language!
It really isn't that hard!
Set small language goals and work more and more until you can speak sentences, have a full convo, and eventually become a fluent speaker
How much of a confidence booster is that??
"Oh yeah I can speak...." That really is great to be able to say
You could meet people of that country and become friends with them
It can open up more career opportunies too!
Go try it! And have fun doing it!
Email me if you have anything on your mind! kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
That can seem like a hard task but then how do others do it?
Find some free software online to teach you and try and learn one new thing a day
By only learning one or two things a day you can not feel so overwhelmed by learning this complex language!
It really isn't that hard!
Set small language goals and work more and more until you can speak sentences, have a full convo, and eventually become a fluent speaker
How much of a confidence booster is that??
"Oh yeah I can speak...." That really is great to be able to say
You could meet people of that country and become friends with them
It can open up more career opportunies too!
Go try it! And have fun doing it!
Email me if you have anything on your mind! kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Parents
Parents can become the number one hindrance when trying to follow your dreams
They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky
Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."
That isn't very nice to hear is it?
It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things
But you know what?
Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love
Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too
Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want
But you will not be the audience anymore
Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky
Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."
That isn't very nice to hear is it?
It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things
But you know what?
Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love
Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too
Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want
But you will not be the audience anymore
Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Help Someone
Why do people love to hate on one another and make each other become isolated?
It doesn't get anyone anywhere
It just makes someone else's life suck a little more
But come on we are all people, going through the same shit
We have the potential to change someone's life
Start lending a hand to someone who needs it
Show someone you care
Show them they aren't alone
Become a shoulder to cry on
That can mean so much to someone who needs it...
I'm here to cry to, talk to, ask stuff to, whatever
I love you all :)
A kiss for you!
Email me <3
Love,
KissyNicole
It doesn't get anyone anywhere
It just makes someone else's life suck a little more
But come on we are all people, going through the same shit
We have the potential to change someone's life
Start lending a hand to someone who needs it
Show someone you care
Show them they aren't alone
Become a shoulder to cry on
That can mean so much to someone who needs it...
I'm here to cry to, talk to, ask stuff to, whatever
I love you all :)
A kiss for you!
Email me <3
Love,
KissyNicole
Monday, July 4, 2011
Present
One thing you must do to be happy is stay in the present
It is extremely easy to get stuck on the past or get stuck in the "what if" of the future
(I know I have plenty of times....)
That will leave you wanting more always because you can't change either of those
What you can change is the present
The present is right here ready to be mold into whatever you like
Sure future goals are great but not when it becomes obsession and fearful
And sure remembering the past is nice sometimes but again not when it's an obsession
How do you stay in the present? It can be quite tricky
Take a look at what is happening right now
You could be listening to a song, working, playing with your dog, just breathing
Focus on that exact thing you are doing
Don't let anything else come into mind
When you start to practice this and get a firm hold on your thoughts then you can be a much happier and calmer person
Focusing on one thing at a time helps to center yourself immensely
A kiss for you!
Remember you can not have control over the past or future but you do have control over the now
Love,
KissyNicole
It is extremely easy to get stuck on the past or get stuck in the "what if" of the future
(I know I have plenty of times....)
That will leave you wanting more always because you can't change either of those
What you can change is the present
The present is right here ready to be mold into whatever you like
Sure future goals are great but not when it becomes obsession and fearful
And sure remembering the past is nice sometimes but again not when it's an obsession
How do you stay in the present? It can be quite tricky
Take a look at what is happening right now
You could be listening to a song, working, playing with your dog, just breathing
Focus on that exact thing you are doing
Don't let anything else come into mind
When you start to practice this and get a firm hold on your thoughts then you can be a much happier and calmer person
Focusing on one thing at a time helps to center yourself immensely
A kiss for you!
Remember you can not have control over the past or future but you do have control over the now
Love,
KissyNicole
Saturday, July 2, 2011
JK Rowling
JK Rowling is so right!
We do talk about success a lot more than failure when failure is the building block of success!
We have to fail to succeed, it must happen
We have to hit the lowest of lows in our life to realize there is nothing left to lose
Once there is nothing left for you to lose, you become a risk taker, you're reborn into a courageous person with a new outlook on life.
This gives you unlimited ambition and determination
Losing everything you have and hitting the lowest point in your life is a fantastic thing to happen to you because you can only go up from there
That will liberate you to do great things in your life, which is the best gift for yourself, your friends, and the world
Liberation comes from overcoming fear, conquer your fear and your free
Free to live the life you want!
Embrace your failures and be free you guys! It is quite amazing
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
We do talk about success a lot more than failure when failure is the building block of success!
We have to fail to succeed, it must happen
We have to hit the lowest of lows in our life to realize there is nothing left to lose
Once there is nothing left for you to lose, you become a risk taker, you're reborn into a courageous person with a new outlook on life.
This gives you unlimited ambition and determination
Losing everything you have and hitting the lowest point in your life is a fantastic thing to happen to you because you can only go up from there
That will liberate you to do great things in your life, which is the best gift for yourself, your friends, and the world
Liberation comes from overcoming fear, conquer your fear and your free
Free to live the life you want!
Embrace your failures and be free you guys! It is quite amazing
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
What's The Worst?
What is the worst that can happen?
Really think about that.....
If you take a risk doing something what is the worst that can happen?
Somebody goes Saw style on you and kills you because you quit your job and opened a new business?
Hmmm.... Not very likely, sorry
Stop dreaming up worst case scenarios just to get out of being truly happy
Take a risk and enjoy the benefits
or fail and learn from your mistake
That's all folks, super simple, super easy!
Not everyone is out to get you!
Success doesn't happen without a lot of rejection and failing, it has to be that way or everybody would be succeeding in life because it was so easy right? right
Be the one that was courageous enough to go for what they want full speed!
"Be reckless enough to gamble all or nothing to follow your dreams" - John Galliano
This is your life! You're in control, have fun with the opportunity you've been given, which is being alive at this moment!
A kiss for you! Ask me any kind of questions by emailing me at kissynicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Really think about that.....
If you take a risk doing something what is the worst that can happen?
Somebody goes Saw style on you and kills you because you quit your job and opened a new business?
Hmmm.... Not very likely, sorry
Stop dreaming up worst case scenarios just to get out of being truly happy
Take a risk and enjoy the benefits
or fail and learn from your mistake
That's all folks, super simple, super easy!
Not everyone is out to get you!
Success doesn't happen without a lot of rejection and failing, it has to be that way or everybody would be succeeding in life because it was so easy right? right
Be the one that was courageous enough to go for what they want full speed!
"Be reckless enough to gamble all or nothing to follow your dreams" - John Galliano
This is your life! You're in control, have fun with the opportunity you've been given, which is being alive at this moment!
A kiss for you! Ask me any kind of questions by emailing me at kissynicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Be You
Be the first at something
Create something
Let pure creativity flow out of you without holding back
When you do, that frees you, it makes you happy
It is an amazing rewarding experience to express yourself
What you have to offer is amazing, share it with the world!
No task is to large to accomplish, set your goals as high as you want
and go for it! Use your creativity to blast your way to your happiness!
There is a little thing inside you that you are AMAZING at
It could be writing, drawing, accounting, whatever
Let it out, it's there, you just have to let it out of you
A kiss for you...
Love,
KissyNicole
Create something
Let pure creativity flow out of you without holding back
When you do, that frees you, it makes you happy
It is an amazing rewarding experience to express yourself
What you have to offer is amazing, share it with the world!
No task is to large to accomplish, set your goals as high as you want
and go for it! Use your creativity to blast your way to your happiness!
There is a little thing inside you that you are AMAZING at
It could be writing, drawing, accounting, whatever
Let it out, it's there, you just have to let it out of you
A kiss for you...
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Dream Board
Grab a piece of cardboard
Rip out photos from magazines or whatever you like
These photos should represent your dreams and goals
Put them all over the cardboard
And done!
You have created a dream board, now when you look at it you will be reminded of everything you want and be all the more inspired to go out and accomplish them!
"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world." - Buddha
Your thoughts make your external world, focus on your dreams and boom! they will happen in your life.
A kiss to you!
Love, KissyNicole
And here is my dream board!
Rip out photos from magazines or whatever you like
These photos should represent your dreams and goals
Put them all over the cardboard
And done!
You have created a dream board, now when you look at it you will be reminded of everything you want and be all the more inspired to go out and accomplish them!
"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world." - Buddha
Your thoughts make your external world, focus on your dreams and boom! they will happen in your life.
A kiss to you!
Love, KissyNicole
And here is my dream board!
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Make a list
Try making an extremely long list of everything you want in life
From small to really big things
Make a list!
It could be "Keep my room cleaner for longer" or
"become a millionaire"
small and big should go on this list
write it all down with check marks next to each one
pick one to accomplish in a week, month, whatever time you set, then stick with it!
this way all your focus is on one thing at a time instead of a bunch of things that will mess up the process
I believe you can make every single thing on your list happen, now you believe it too!
A kiss for you!
From small to really big things
Make a list!
It could be "Keep my room cleaner for longer" or
"become a millionaire"
small and big should go on this list
write it all down with check marks next to each one
pick one to accomplish in a week, month, whatever time you set, then stick with it!
this way all your focus is on one thing at a time instead of a bunch of things that will mess up the process
I believe you can make every single thing on your list happen, now you believe it too!
A kiss for you!
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Wants
The weirdest thing I've ever seen has to be when people want something and they don't do anything about it
People are so inhibited by something that tells them "you can't do that"
Where does that come from? Maybe our parents, friends, events in life.
One bad experience can scar someone for life
One little thing can become that voice in your head that tells you NO
A horrible part of this problem is sometimes we don't even know it
We accept "no" more than we accept "yes" because it's easier
Yes it's easier to not do anything about what you want, but then why are you expecting your wants to magically appear?
They wont
Part of getting what you want is how you get there, that is half the fun already!
Figure out what you truly want, imagine having it, feel it, if it's really what you want, it will be SUPER easy to get it
The number one thing to get what you want isn't your ability or resources, it's getting rid of fear, getting rid of a voice in your head that says NO
This silly little problem can only hold you back!
Take a risk, do something crazy!
What is the worst that can happen? You won't die of embarrassment or failure will you? Nope it only makes you stronger, it only teaches you to do better.
Just let it go...... Your dreams and wants are CERTAINLY worth the effort
Make a change and get ready to be rewarded for it
A kiss for you!!
People are so inhibited by something that tells them "you can't do that"
Where does that come from? Maybe our parents, friends, events in life.
One bad experience can scar someone for life
One little thing can become that voice in your head that tells you NO
A horrible part of this problem is sometimes we don't even know it
We accept "no" more than we accept "yes" because it's easier
Yes it's easier to not do anything about what you want, but then why are you expecting your wants to magically appear?
They wont
Part of getting what you want is how you get there, that is half the fun already!
Figure out what you truly want, imagine having it, feel it, if it's really what you want, it will be SUPER easy to get it
The number one thing to get what you want isn't your ability or resources, it's getting rid of fear, getting rid of a voice in your head that says NO
This silly little problem can only hold you back!
Take a risk, do something crazy!
What is the worst that can happen? You won't die of embarrassment or failure will you? Nope it only makes you stronger, it only teaches you to do better.
Just let it go...... Your dreams and wants are CERTAINLY worth the effort
Make a change and get ready to be rewarded for it
A kiss for you!!
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