Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Some Positivity For You!

Hello!

Guess what!

You are amazing! 

No one else is like you

Nothing lasts forever

People who hate are miserable on the inside

The weather is nice today

Everyone has a talent of some kind

You are able to read this right now

As long as you live, there will always be a new day to try it again :)

At least one person loves you, and that's me!

Never feel alone, email me: kissynicole2@live.com
follow on twitter: @Kissy_Nicole

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Your Destiny

Hello!

I haven't written much in the last few days as I have been very sad about Amy Winehouse's death

As much as I hate it I always felt like it was her destiny to be great and then pass to join the other greats that have died young like Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, and Kurt Cobain

They all can finally be in peace and sing together :)

Anyways I could see in her eyes and through her music that she was a tortured soul, as am I

Maybe it was destiny for her to touch the world with her music

Which got me thinking about my own destiny

How about you? Do you feel you were meant to do something?

Hopefully whatever career you have is what you feel deep down you were meant to do, if not, change that immediately!

I believe we were all meant to do something, some talent, some devotion to something that we will have success in no matter what

We must follow that little voice inside us that tells us what we need to do

Find that thing that lights a fire in your heart and never let it go


So although Amy died young, she still showed the world her talent and changed the lives of millions with her music and unique sense of style

That was a HUGE accomplishment, and for that I love her

She will forever motivate me to go for it!

I hope to motivate another.....
And show the world that you aren't alone
And that we all can achieve extraordinary things by following what our heart tells us

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Sunday, July 10, 2011

Word Journal

Here is a great tip to keep your goals in sight and keep you in a good mood!

Take some sort of scrapbook, Just a book with a lot of blank white pages

Everyday write in it words

The words can be colorful or plain, whatever suits you

Make one page about your dreams
It could say "Fashion career, family, nice house etc etc"

Use words to describe the life you want (make them all positive)

Then everyday use your creativity to write a page with just random words on things you like or would like!

And I don't mean writing as in writing a story

I mean just one phrase each, floating around, like the dream board only with just words!

Then whenever you want you can look at these words and visualize them in your mind

Seeing what you want outside your head helps you stay focused on them!

This scrapbook can be a private little pick-me-up and reminder of your future :)

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Friday, July 8, 2011

A Wonderful Thought......

A wonderful thought just popped into my head.....

When striving for your biggest most amazing fantastic dreams that would make you the happiest person alive,

You don't need to know how you will get there

That's the beauty of the universe, it figures out the "how"

You just need to get going

Start going down that road to your goals and all these opportunities will appear

Let's say you got in your car and went on a random road trip to go somewhere amazing
But you didn't know exactly how to get there....
You would check for road signs along the way not try and predict where to turn on your own (we aren't all psychic!)
That's half the fun of life, not knowing!

Quit trying to predict the signs and just get going!!!

A kiss for you!! Email me! Don't be shy! kissynicole2@live.com

Love you always,
KissyNicole

You Are Your Biggest Enemy



Have you ever felt like you are your biggest enemy?


Sometimes we are just so mean to ourselves!


We think bad thoughts about our looks, our way of speaking, and our work performance-just to name a few
We can hold ourselves back from doing the things we really want to
Maybe with words like "Everybody will think I am weird"
Which is so odd because did everybody say "You are so weird if you do that...."


Not really


So why do we want to bully ourselves all the time?
Where does that come from?


It's almost like feeling good about yourself has become so rare in our society


It shouldn't be that way


We shouldn't be so hard on ourselves, it makes us unhappy!!


If you are your own biggest advocate then looking for other people's approval is unnecessary


If you took the time to build yourself up and make yourself feel good then nobody can come in the way of your happiness
Try to stop that pattern of thinking where all you do is tear yourself down
Listen to your thoughts and zone in on those pesky negative ones and replace them with good ones!


Controlling how you think takes practice because we are so stuck in our ways


And none of this is to be ashamed of, we all harshly critizice ourselves! You're not alone


Stop holding a grudge against yourself for making mistakes! We all make mistakes constantly, there's no avoiding that


Love yourself and everyone else will too! (sounds cheesy but it's absolutely true)
People don't want to have to be a mirror instead of a friend and constantly remind you you don't suck


Just love you and be you!


A kiss for you!


Love,
KissyNicole



Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Take A Look

Take a look at your life
Look at where you live
Who you are surrounded by
What job you have

Look at all aspects of  your life and what the reality is

Then look at each thing you wish your life was like

Compare the two and see what you can change to make the "reality" list look just like the "dream life" list

Breaking down each goal into smaller goals makes it easier to accomplish!

Set little goals for yourself and you are much more likely to succeed

I hope you all succeed! A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Learn A New Language

Wouldn't it be really cool to learn a new language?

That can seem like a hard task but then how do others do it?

Find some free software online to teach you and try and learn one new thing a day

By only learning one or two things a day you can not feel so overwhelmed by learning this complex language!

It really isn't that hard!

Set small language goals and work more and more until you can speak sentences, have a full convo, and eventually become a fluent speaker

How much of a confidence booster is that??

"Oh yeah I can speak...." That really is great to be able to say
You could meet people of that country and become friends with them
It can open up more career opportunies too!

Go try it! And have fun doing it!

Email me if you have anything on your mind! kissynicole2@live.com

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Parents

Parents can become the number one hindrance when trying to follow your dreams

They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky

Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."

That isn't very nice to hear is it?

It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things

But you know what?

Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love

Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too

Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want

But you will not be the audience anymore

Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Help Someone

Why do people love to hate on one another and make each other become isolated?

It doesn't get anyone anywhere

It just makes someone else's life suck a little more

But come on we are all people, going through the same shit

We have the potential to change someone's life
Start lending a hand to someone who needs it
Show someone you care
Show them they aren't alone
Become a shoulder to cry on

That can mean so much to someone who needs it...

I'm here to cry to, talk to, ask stuff to, whatever

I love you all :)

A kiss for you!
Email me <3

Love,
KissyNicole

Saturday, July 2, 2011

JK Rowling

JK Rowling is so right!
We do talk about success a lot more than failure when failure is the building block of success!

We have to fail to succeed, it must happen
We have to hit the lowest of lows in our life to realize there is nothing left to lose
Once there is nothing left for you to lose, you become a risk taker, you're reborn into a courageous person with a new outlook on life.

This gives you unlimited ambition and determination

Losing everything you have and hitting the lowest point in your life is a fantastic thing to happen to you because you can only go up from there

That will liberate you to do great things in your life, which is the best gift for yourself, your friends, and the world

Liberation comes from overcoming fear, conquer your fear and your free

Free to live the life you want!

Embrace your failures and be free you guys! It is quite amazing

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

My Role Models

  • Oprah**** Self made female billionaire, came from hard times and changed lives
  • JK Rowling**** Self made female billionaire, came from hard times and used her creativity to write an amazing book
  • Gisele Bundchen-on her way to becoming the world's first billionaire supermodel
  • Paris Hilton-used her fame to develop a successful brand
  • Lady Gaga-used her incredible creativity and talent to change the way people think and feel, inspiring millions and becoming a very rich lady haha
  • Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen-successful in fashion world
  • Bill Gates-took computers and made them accessible to millions of households
  • Bethenny Frankel-created a product then sold it for a hefty price, also has a great husband and daughter
  • Candice Swanepoel and Rosie Huntington Whiteley-beautiful and sweet Victoria's Secret Angels
I hope to become something as great as these people one day!
And I hope you do too!
Make a difference in the world..... It needs it

Love,
KissyNicole

Be You

Be the first at something
Create something
Let pure creativity flow out of you without holding back
When you do, that frees you, it makes you happy
It is an amazing rewarding experience to express yourself
What you have to offer is amazing, share it with the world!
No task is to large to accomplish, set your goals as high as you want
and go for it! Use your creativity to blast your way to your happiness!

There is a little thing inside you that you are AMAZING at
It could be writing, drawing, accounting, whatever
Let it out, it's there, you just have to let it out of you

A kiss for you...
Love,
KissyNicole

Thursday, June 30, 2011

Dream Board

Grab a piece of cardboard


Rip out photos from magazines or whatever you like 


These photos should represent your dreams and goals


Put them all over the cardboard


And done!


You have created a dream board, now when you look at it you will be reminded of everything you want and be all the more inspired to go out and accomplish them!


"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world." - Buddha


Your thoughts make your external world, focus on your dreams and boom! they will happen in your life.


A kiss to you!
Love, KissyNicole


And here is my dream board!

The Basics

Let's get back to the basics
Tons of people neglect the basics in life and then wonder why their lives aren't how they want it to be

First things first, self esteem, if you don't feel like you are worth having the best, you will never have it because you can't accept that you deserve it!

Next is confidence, self esteem and confidence seem to be the same but they aren't. Self esteem is feeling good about you and loving yourself but without confidence those will take you no where. Confidence gets you to take risks, it makes you feel secure whilst taking your risks. Risk is the only way to get anywhere in life.

Morals, have your own set of morals and rules and stick with them. Don't let other people sway you because if you do, you're trying to be like them, and trying to be like others messes you up! Anyone who has ever became successful in life did it their OWN way, not by following others. You are you, own it, live it, love it.

The rest will follow. If you are true to you, love and respect you, and stay firm with what you want and do what you love to do NO ONE and nothing can stop you! It's as easy as that :)

You make your future happen, you decide, you are in control, some people don't know what to do with that much power so they give it up and let fear take over because it's easier. Life shouldn't be easy, if it's easy then man it becomes SO boring!!

Work on the basics of you, who you are, and work on loving yourself!
Then you can start to work on your dreams!

A kiss for you!!!!
Love,
KissyNicole

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Make a list

Try making an extremely long list of everything you want in life
From small to really big things
Make a list!

It could be "Keep my room cleaner for longer" or
"become a millionaire"

small and big should go on this list
write it all down with check marks next to each one

pick one to accomplish in a week, month, whatever time you set, then stick with it!

this way all your focus is on one thing at a time instead of a bunch of things that will mess up the process

I believe you can make every single thing on your list happen, now you believe it too!
A kiss for you!