Been so long since I wrote something
Today is 9/11 and for any American that date sticks out in our minds so strongly
I feel like crying
I hope that those lost do not feel anymore pain or sorrow for what happened and they have successfully moved on
I hope that those living that were effected are able to live a happy life still
I really hope huge crisises like this do NOT happen again
I hope we all realize one day that we all are the same, same humans, same hearts
And because of that similarity we should stand together not apart
All we have to not feel alone is each other
I hope we learn to work together one day and then we will see how powerful we really can be
A Kiss For You
Love,
KissyNicole
Sunday, September 11, 2011
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
When Is It Over?
How can we know when a relationship is over?
That sounds silly and easy but come on, figuring out when to call it quits is nearly impossible
And the longer a bad relationship gets drawn out, the more it hurts
Good thing is- almost all of us have battled with this
Here are some questions to ask yourself to help determine, Over or not?
That sounds silly and easy but come on, figuring out when to call it quits is nearly impossible
And the longer a bad relationship gets drawn out, the more it hurts
Good thing is- almost all of us have battled with this
Here are some questions to ask yourself to help determine, Over or not?
- Are you more often happy or sad when with this person?
- Is it easy to get into fights?
- Does he/she normally really hurt your feelings and not even seem to care?
- Do you see a long future with this person?
- Do you share similar values/life goals?
In the end it's only going to be you and that other person deciding what to do
No one can really have an opinion about it because, they aren't in the relationship too!
So don't let what others say bother you
And if you are REALLY in a sticky situation (the relationship is 50% good 50% bad)
Ask yourself
Is the 50% bad worth going through to get the 50% good part?
If yes then congrats!
If yes then congrats!
Remember: don't stick around in a relationship that you know isn't getting any better
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
P.S.- No one has to be shunned out of your life if you decide they are not good for you, there always is the option of being just friends :)
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Honesty
Why is it so hard for people to be HONEST?
Being honest is almost so rare now a days that I just don't even want to trust anymore
People need to teach their kids when they are young to tell the truth no matter what
Not being honest is where girls get their hearts broken, where people get into even deeper trouble, and where trust is lost for a very long time
It is silly to not be truthful
Even to people you don't know
It's a very admirable quality to have, so start possessing it TODAY
Own up for what you've done, or make someone see the real you, all is possible with telling the truth
Save someone heartbreak over finding out you're a liar by NOT doing it
One thing is certainly agreeable by everyone:
We all would like some more honesty more often!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Being honest is almost so rare now a days that I just don't even want to trust anymore
People need to teach their kids when they are young to tell the truth no matter what
Not being honest is where girls get their hearts broken, where people get into even deeper trouble, and where trust is lost for a very long time
It is silly to not be truthful
Even to people you don't know
It's a very admirable quality to have, so start possessing it TODAY
Own up for what you've done, or make someone see the real you, all is possible with telling the truth
Save someone heartbreak over finding out you're a liar by NOT doing it
One thing is certainly agreeable by everyone:
We all would like some more honesty more often!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Negative People
Do you know anyone that can just turn any situation into a crappy one?
They are absolutely the most annoying people to be around!! All they care about is drama
Not matter what, it is like it's physically impossible for them to just laugh something off and get over it
Keep yourself AWAY from people like that
and if you ARE like that, STOP immediately, you're pushing people away from you
Everyone wants to be around people that make them laugh and that inspire them to see the good in everything
Be that person or get to know people like that
Who you surround yourself with greatly effects you
So.....
Be around good and good will come to you!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
They are absolutely the most annoying people to be around!! All they care about is drama
Not matter what, it is like it's physically impossible for them to just laugh something off and get over it
Keep yourself AWAY from people like that
and if you ARE like that, STOP immediately, you're pushing people away from you
Everyone wants to be around people that make them laugh and that inspire them to see the good in everything
Be that person or get to know people like that
Who you surround yourself with greatly effects you
So.....
Be around good and good will come to you!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Follow Your Dreams
Anything you wanted to do but just never did it?
Have a secret passion for something but you never followed through with it?
Use all your time here on this earth chasing or doing what you love because if you don't
Then what's the point of even doing anything at all
Doing what you love makes your job not feel like a job
It makes all your time fun
It makes you feel fulfilled and happy
It is maybe the best thing you can do for yourself
so.......
DO IT
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Have a secret passion for something but you never followed through with it?
Use all your time here on this earth chasing or doing what you love because if you don't
Then what's the point of even doing anything at all
Doing what you love makes your job not feel like a job
It makes all your time fun
It makes you feel fulfilled and happy
It is maybe the best thing you can do for yourself
so.......
DO IT
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Monday, August 15, 2011
Kids Are Smarter Than Adults
Kids are younger than us yet they know more than us
They live happy carefree adventurous lives
while most of us struggle to be content and stress free
We have a lot to learn from children for sure!
But remember we were all kids once, we have the experience and knowledge to go back to that state of mind
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Email me, let me know what your thinking! kissynicole2@live.com
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They live happy carefree adventurous lives
while most of us struggle to be content and stress free
We have a lot to learn from children for sure!
But remember we were all kids once, we have the experience and knowledge to go back to that state of mind
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Email me, let me know what your thinking! kissynicole2@live.com
Answer my poll question located on the ride side of my bloggity, pwease ---->
Opinions
Everyone has an opinion about everything
Everyone has a specific view on a subject
There are millions of different opinions out there
So in the big scheme of things, who is really right?
Can anyone ever be right?
Is there such a thing as being "right" on something?
I say listen to yourself and what you think, that is the best way to live your life
And if people think you are "wrong" there will always be a handful of others thinking you're "right"
So be happy doing your own thing!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
P.S. How about this: WE ALL ARE RIGHT! Now there is nothing to fight about ha
Everyone has a specific view on a subject
There are millions of different opinions out there
So in the big scheme of things, who is really right?
Can anyone ever be right?
Is there such a thing as being "right" on something?
I say listen to yourself and what you think, that is the best way to live your life
And if people think you are "wrong" there will always be a handful of others thinking you're "right"
So be happy doing your own thing!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
P.S. How about this: WE ALL ARE RIGHT! Now there is nothing to fight about ha
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Remember
Remember that we are all
beautiful
amazing
funny
lovable
inspiring
intelligent
brave
to someone
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
beautiful
amazing
funny
lovable
inspiring
intelligent
brave
to someone
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Check Out Twitter
Twitter is a really fun social networking site that cuts out all the extra stuff like customizing profiles and "walls"
You can go on there and follow your favorite people
For example you can follow your favorite celebrity and see what they are saying instantly
Or you can also follow people who tweet inspirational quotes
That is a real mood booster!
That's very beneficial to your overall health to be reminded every so often of the good things in life
You can also connect with friends
It really is fun
I highly recommend creating a Twitter
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Check out my Twitter! twitter.com/Kissy_Nicole
You can go on there and follow your favorite people
For example you can follow your favorite celebrity and see what they are saying instantly
Or you can also follow people who tweet inspirational quotes
That is a real mood booster!
That's very beneficial to your overall health to be reminded every so often of the good things in life
You can also connect with friends
It really is fun
I highly recommend creating a Twitter
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Check out my Twitter! twitter.com/Kissy_Nicole
Disapproval From Others
Hello again!
This particular subject really affects everyone!
It can be so frustrating when others like family or friends don't approve of the way you want to live when you are perfectly happy!
They should be supportive and should love anything you do but....
We are all not so lucky sometimes
Then how can you deal with this disapproval?
If they are willing to shun you and never speak to you again then hey, they are not worth the effort
If they simply lecture you or act differently in a negative way because of this thing or person then there is something you can do
Come up with valid reasons as to why you want to continue this thing and present them to that person in a non-argumentative way
And if that will not convince them then simply stop talking about this subject which they disapprove of
It avoids an argument and you can find someone else to talk to and confide in
Don't lay all your chips in on one person because when they reject you it will be that much more devastating
Instead confide in more than one person so there will always be a listening ear!
If you can't modify someone else, modify yourself because you are all you have control over
and most importantly make it a good habit to surround yourself with supportive loving people, family or friends!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
This particular subject really affects everyone!
It can be so frustrating when others like family or friends don't approve of the way you want to live when you are perfectly happy!
They should be supportive and should love anything you do but....
We are all not so lucky sometimes
Then how can you deal with this disapproval?
If they are willing to shun you and never speak to you again then hey, they are not worth the effort
If they simply lecture you or act differently in a negative way because of this thing or person then there is something you can do
Come up with valid reasons as to why you want to continue this thing and present them to that person in a non-argumentative way
And if that will not convince them then simply stop talking about this subject which they disapprove of
It avoids an argument and you can find someone else to talk to and confide in
Don't lay all your chips in on one person because when they reject you it will be that much more devastating
Instead confide in more than one person so there will always be a listening ear!
If you can't modify someone else, modify yourself because you are all you have control over
and most importantly make it a good habit to surround yourself with supportive loving people, family or friends!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Bad Situations
I'm going to lay it out for you
If you are in a bad situation that you are miserable being in you have options
Change the situation, move away or get a job so you can leave for example
And if you can't change the situation.....
Make it your decision to stop caring
Things can only effect you as much as you let it
Regain that control and stop caring, stop listening, zone out when this bad situation starts to give you stress
The same thing can only upset you so often
Then after a while when the situation doesn't change and you are still getting upset, then it becomes your fault
Take back the control you deserve
Be happy everyone!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
If you are in a bad situation that you are miserable being in you have options
Change the situation, move away or get a job so you can leave for example
And if you can't change the situation.....
Make it your decision to stop caring
Things can only effect you as much as you let it
Regain that control and stop caring, stop listening, zone out when this bad situation starts to give you stress
The same thing can only upset you so often
Then after a while when the situation doesn't change and you are still getting upset, then it becomes your fault
Take back the control you deserve
Be happy everyone!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Some Positivity For You!
Hello!
Guess what!
You are amazing!
No one else is like you
Nothing lasts forever
People who hate are miserable on the inside
The weather is nice today
Everyone has a talent of some kind
You are able to read this right now
As long as you live, there will always be a new day to try it again :)
At least one person loves you, and that's me!
Never feel alone, email me: kissynicole2@live.com
follow on twitter: @Kissy_Nicole
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Guess what!
You are amazing!
No one else is like you
Nothing lasts forever
People who hate are miserable on the inside
The weather is nice today
Everyone has a talent of some kind
You are able to read this right now
As long as you live, there will always be a new day to try it again :)
At least one person loves you, and that's me!
Never feel alone, email me: kissynicole2@live.com
follow on twitter: @Kissy_Nicole
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Pups
Anyone have a dog?If you do you know how amazing it is!
They can be your very best friend, someone there to cry to, someone that won't judge just be there for you when you most need it
And it also makes it really fun to come home to that waggy tail and kisses!
If you don't have a doggy, I suggest going out and getting one as soon as possible
And if money is an issue, get a smaller dog, less food to buy, less poop to pick up
It's a win win!
Dogs help you live longer, they relieve tons of stress and they often do silly little things that will make you burst out laughing
Seriously consider getting a puppy!
Or thank your little guy that he is already with you, I know I'm thankful!
A kiss for you!
Love
KissyNicole
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Exercise
Just got done exercising and wow!
I am out of shape!
I bet you if you did some exercising too you would find that you too are out of shape as well
It seems so easy to just forget about exercising and go on with your lives
But honestly it is super important
Just exercising 3-4 times a week can knock out tons of diseases
It will keep you young!
Relieve stress!
Up your energy level
Help you look like a perfect 10 in a swimsuit
And most importantly it will make you feel so much better, mind and body
Take that time to exercise, in your own home even, there is no excuse!
Give yourself 20 minutes a day to improve your life
That's less time than one TV show!
Do whatever works for you and the benefits will be well worth it!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
I am out of shape!
I bet you if you did some exercising too you would find that you too are out of shape as well
It seems so easy to just forget about exercising and go on with your lives
But honestly it is super important
Just exercising 3-4 times a week can knock out tons of diseases
It will keep you young!
Relieve stress!
Up your energy level
Help you look like a perfect 10 in a swimsuit
And most importantly it will make you feel so much better, mind and body
Take that time to exercise, in your own home even, there is no excuse!
Give yourself 20 minutes a day to improve your life
That's less time than one TV show!
Do whatever works for you and the benefits will be well worth it!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Monday, August 8, 2011
Are You Weird?
If you think you are "weird" or "different" or "crazy" from time to time then
Congrats!
You have broken the mold of boringness
Did anyone ever really listen to someone who was considered boring and normal?
Nope
The people that are considered to be "weird" are the people who change the world
And it is a special club not many can get in
Be proud that you are in this exclusive category!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Congrats!
You have broken the mold of boringness
Did anyone ever really listen to someone who was considered boring and normal?
Nope
The people that are considered to be "weird" are the people who change the world
And it is a special club not many can get in
Be proud that you are in this exclusive category!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Greener Grass
Listen up!
Never compare your life to others and go wishing you had their lives instead of yours
Because the grass is always going to be greener somewhere else
There will always be someone richer, more successful, happier, more beautiful than you, and more "SOMETHING" than you
Appreciate what you have because there could be someone out there wishing they had your life
Your house, your job, your kids
We all have lives worth envying by others!
Enjoy your own life, it's much more fun that way
(and guess what, by enjoying your own life, others will wish they had your life!)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Never compare your life to others and go wishing you had their lives instead of yours
Because the grass is always going to be greener somewhere else
There will always be someone richer, more successful, happier, more beautiful than you, and more "SOMETHING" than you
Appreciate what you have because there could be someone out there wishing they had your life
Your house, your job, your kids
We all have lives worth envying by others!
Enjoy your own life, it's much more fun that way
(and guess what, by enjoying your own life, others will wish they had your life!)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
The News And Negativity
Does anyone else see how negative the news is?
It is like they are incapable of reporting the good things that happen
For example recently I have heard the word "debt" maybe a million times on the news
They can not stop talking about how bad the economy is!
If you want to watch TV I suggest you watch happy things
By surrounding ourselves with words like "debt", "death" and other negative things then it subconsciously puts a dark cloud over us
Even if things aren't directly effecting you, our subconscious is still listening and soaks information up like a sponge
Keep the negative things out by making sure you are surrounding yourself with good things like comedies, good friends, pretty music, anything that creates a happy feeling for you
Do this and you will feel much healthier and happier instantly!
A kiss for you!!
Email me: kissynicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
It is like they are incapable of reporting the good things that happen
For example recently I have heard the word "debt" maybe a million times on the news
They can not stop talking about how bad the economy is!
If you want to watch TV I suggest you watch happy things
By surrounding ourselves with words like "debt", "death" and other negative things then it subconsciously puts a dark cloud over us
Even if things aren't directly effecting you, our subconscious is still listening and soaks information up like a sponge
Keep the negative things out by making sure you are surrounding yourself with good things like comedies, good friends, pretty music, anything that creates a happy feeling for you
Do this and you will feel much healthier and happier instantly!
A kiss for you!!
Email me: kissynicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Friday, August 5, 2011
Settling In A Relationship
Why do we always settle?
Most relationships today have negative answers to "Do they make me happy?" "Do they respect me?" or "Do we have the same values?" "Am I satisfied in this relationship?"
There is a long list of fundamental questions to ask in a relationship to determine whether or not it is worth your time
Yes love is a big part but that's not all!
You could love someone who doesn't even like you so easily
It is about taking a look at how you feel in the relationship, if you feel amazing and great then it probably is
But if you are plagued with worries and stress then why stick around?
Life's short and wasting time with a person that doesn't deserve your time is stupid
We shouldn't settle for anyone, we should feel lucky!
Analyze the different parts of your relationship, each others values, each others flaws, look at how well you two work together
Remember it's not about being clones, it's about compatibility
Take an outside look at the quality of the relationship and be critical instead of lenient
Ask yourself obvious questions like if you are happy, if your needs are being satisfied
And just do not settle! The bond won't last that way and it is NOT worth it
A Kiss For You!
Email me with relationship questions! kissnicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Most relationships today have negative answers to "Do they make me happy?" "Do they respect me?" or "Do we have the same values?" "Am I satisfied in this relationship?"
There is a long list of fundamental questions to ask in a relationship to determine whether or not it is worth your time
Yes love is a big part but that's not all!
You could love someone who doesn't even like you so easily
It is about taking a look at how you feel in the relationship, if you feel amazing and great then it probably is
But if you are plagued with worries and stress then why stick around?
Life's short and wasting time with a person that doesn't deserve your time is stupid
We shouldn't settle for anyone, we should feel lucky!
Analyze the different parts of your relationship, each others values, each others flaws, look at how well you two work together
Remember it's not about being clones, it's about compatibility
Take an outside look at the quality of the relationship and be critical instead of lenient
Ask yourself obvious questions like if you are happy, if your needs are being satisfied
And just do not settle! The bond won't last that way and it is NOT worth it
A Kiss For You!
Email me with relationship questions! kissnicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Break Up
Wow a break up is so hard to deal with!
It can even be in your favor yet still you find yourself missing that person all the time
It is like your mind thinks in "good" mode when you break up
All you can remember is the good things!!
But honestly there was a break up for a reason
And that reason needs to be accepted and believed to be truth or else your head will go crazy spinning around trying to get that person back
It is a sad thing to deal with but as one goes almost always another follows that makes you happy again :)
Keep hope alive that you will move on and don't try to move on as quickly as possible
Give yourself a good amount of time so that the next relationship isn't flawed by the old one
Email me if you need help during a break up!
A kiss for you! I love you!
Love,
KissyNicole
It can even be in your favor yet still you find yourself missing that person all the time
It is like your mind thinks in "good" mode when you break up
All you can remember is the good things!!
But honestly there was a break up for a reason
And that reason needs to be accepted and believed to be truth or else your head will go crazy spinning around trying to get that person back
It is a sad thing to deal with but as one goes almost always another follows that makes you happy again :)
Keep hope alive that you will move on and don't try to move on as quickly as possible
Give yourself a good amount of time so that the next relationship isn't flawed by the old one
Email me if you need help during a break up!
A kiss for you! I love you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Your Destiny
Hello!
I haven't written much in the last few days as I have been very sad about Amy Winehouse's death
As much as I hate it I always felt like it was her destiny to be great and then pass to join the other greats that have died young like Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, and Kurt Cobain
They all can finally be in peace and sing together :)
Anyways I could see in her eyes and through her music that she was a tortured soul, as am I
Maybe it was destiny for her to touch the world with her music
Which got me thinking about my own destiny
How about you? Do you feel you were meant to do something?
Hopefully whatever career you have is what you feel deep down you were meant to do, if not, change that immediately!
I believe we were all meant to do something, some talent, some devotion to something that we will have success in no matter what
We must follow that little voice inside us that tells us what we need to do
Find that thing that lights a fire in your heart and never let it go
So although Amy died young, she still showed the world her talent and changed the lives of millions with her music and unique sense of style
That was a HUGE accomplishment, and for that I love her
She will forever motivate me to go for it!
I hope to motivate another.....
And show the world that you aren't alone
And that we all can achieve extraordinary things by following what our heart tells us
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
I haven't written much in the last few days as I have been very sad about Amy Winehouse's death
As much as I hate it I always felt like it was her destiny to be great and then pass to join the other greats that have died young like Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, and Kurt Cobain
They all can finally be in peace and sing together :)
Anyways I could see in her eyes and through her music that she was a tortured soul, as am I
Maybe it was destiny for her to touch the world with her music
Which got me thinking about my own destiny
How about you? Do you feel you were meant to do something?
Hopefully whatever career you have is what you feel deep down you were meant to do, if not, change that immediately!
I believe we were all meant to do something, some talent, some devotion to something that we will have success in no matter what
We must follow that little voice inside us that tells us what we need to do
Find that thing that lights a fire in your heart and never let it go
So although Amy died young, she still showed the world her talent and changed the lives of millions with her music and unique sense of style
That was a HUGE accomplishment, and for that I love her
She will forever motivate me to go for it!
I hope to motivate another.....
And show the world that you aren't alone
And that we all can achieve extraordinary things by following what our heart tells us
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
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