Hello again!
This particular subject really affects everyone!
It can be so frustrating when others like family or friends don't approve of the way you want to live when you are perfectly happy!
They should be supportive and should love anything you do but....
We are all not so lucky sometimes
Then how can you deal with this disapproval?
If they are willing to shun you and never speak to you again then hey, they are not worth the effort
If they simply lecture you or act differently in a negative way because of this thing or person then there is something you can do
Come up with valid reasons as to why you want to continue this thing and present them to that person in a non-argumentative way
And if that will not convince them then simply stop talking about this subject which they disapprove of
It avoids an argument and you can find someone else to talk to and confide in
Don't lay all your chips in on one person because when they reject you it will be that much more devastating
Instead confide in more than one person so there will always be a listening ear!
If you can't modify someone else, modify yourself because you are all you have control over
and most importantly make it a good habit to surround yourself with supportive loving people, family or friends!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Showing posts with label failures. Show all posts
Showing posts with label failures. Show all posts
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Parents
Parents can become the number one hindrance when trying to follow your dreams
They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky
Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."
That isn't very nice to hear is it?
It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things
But you know what?
Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love
Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too
Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want
But you will not be the audience anymore
Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky
Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."
That isn't very nice to hear is it?
It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things
But you know what?
Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love
Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too
Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want
But you will not be the audience anymore
Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Saturday, July 2, 2011
JK Rowling
JK Rowling is so right!
We do talk about success a lot more than failure when failure is the building block of success!
We have to fail to succeed, it must happen
We have to hit the lowest of lows in our life to realize there is nothing left to lose
Once there is nothing left for you to lose, you become a risk taker, you're reborn into a courageous person with a new outlook on life.
This gives you unlimited ambition and determination
Losing everything you have and hitting the lowest point in your life is a fantastic thing to happen to you because you can only go up from there
That will liberate you to do great things in your life, which is the best gift for yourself, your friends, and the world
Liberation comes from overcoming fear, conquer your fear and your free
Free to live the life you want!
Embrace your failures and be free you guys! It is quite amazing
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
We do talk about success a lot more than failure when failure is the building block of success!
We have to fail to succeed, it must happen
We have to hit the lowest of lows in our life to realize there is nothing left to lose
Once there is nothing left for you to lose, you become a risk taker, you're reborn into a courageous person with a new outlook on life.
This gives you unlimited ambition and determination
Losing everything you have and hitting the lowest point in your life is a fantastic thing to happen to you because you can only go up from there
That will liberate you to do great things in your life, which is the best gift for yourself, your friends, and the world
Liberation comes from overcoming fear, conquer your fear and your free
Free to live the life you want!
Embrace your failures and be free you guys! It is quite amazing
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
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