Kids are younger than us yet they know more than us
They live happy carefree adventurous lives
while most of us struggle to be content and stress free
We have a lot to learn from children for sure!
But remember we were all kids once, we have the experience and knowledge to go back to that state of mind
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
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Showing posts with label self esteem. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self esteem. Show all posts
Monday, August 15, 2011
Opinions
Everyone has an opinion about everything
Everyone has a specific view on a subject
There are millions of different opinions out there
So in the big scheme of things, who is really right?
Can anyone ever be right?
Is there such a thing as being "right" on something?
I say listen to yourself and what you think, that is the best way to live your life
And if people think you are "wrong" there will always be a handful of others thinking you're "right"
So be happy doing your own thing!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
P.S. How about this: WE ALL ARE RIGHT! Now there is nothing to fight about ha
Everyone has a specific view on a subject
There are millions of different opinions out there
So in the big scheme of things, who is really right?
Can anyone ever be right?
Is there such a thing as being "right" on something?
I say listen to yourself and what you think, that is the best way to live your life
And if people think you are "wrong" there will always be a handful of others thinking you're "right"
So be happy doing your own thing!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
P.S. How about this: WE ALL ARE RIGHT! Now there is nothing to fight about ha
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Check Out Twitter
Twitter is a really fun social networking site that cuts out all the extra stuff like customizing profiles and "walls"
You can go on there and follow your favorite people
For example you can follow your favorite celebrity and see what they are saying instantly
Or you can also follow people who tweet inspirational quotes
That is a real mood booster!
That's very beneficial to your overall health to be reminded every so often of the good things in life
You can also connect with friends
It really is fun
I highly recommend creating a Twitter
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Check out my Twitter! twitter.com/Kissy_Nicole
You can go on there and follow your favorite people
For example you can follow your favorite celebrity and see what they are saying instantly
Or you can also follow people who tweet inspirational quotes
That is a real mood booster!
That's very beneficial to your overall health to be reminded every so often of the good things in life
You can also connect with friends
It really is fun
I highly recommend creating a Twitter
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Check out my Twitter! twitter.com/Kissy_Nicole
Monday, August 8, 2011
Are You Weird?
If you think you are "weird" or "different" or "crazy" from time to time then
Congrats!
You have broken the mold of boringness
Did anyone ever really listen to someone who was considered boring and normal?
Nope
The people that are considered to be "weird" are the people who change the world
And it is a special club not many can get in
Be proud that you are in this exclusive category!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Congrats!
You have broken the mold of boringness
Did anyone ever really listen to someone who was considered boring and normal?
Nope
The people that are considered to be "weird" are the people who change the world
And it is a special club not many can get in
Be proud that you are in this exclusive category!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Friday, August 5, 2011
Settling In A Relationship
Why do we always settle?
Most relationships today have negative answers to "Do they make me happy?" "Do they respect me?" or "Do we have the same values?" "Am I satisfied in this relationship?"
There is a long list of fundamental questions to ask in a relationship to determine whether or not it is worth your time
Yes love is a big part but that's not all!
You could love someone who doesn't even like you so easily
It is about taking a look at how you feel in the relationship, if you feel amazing and great then it probably is
But if you are plagued with worries and stress then why stick around?
Life's short and wasting time with a person that doesn't deserve your time is stupid
We shouldn't settle for anyone, we should feel lucky!
Analyze the different parts of your relationship, each others values, each others flaws, look at how well you two work together
Remember it's not about being clones, it's about compatibility
Take an outside look at the quality of the relationship and be critical instead of lenient
Ask yourself obvious questions like if you are happy, if your needs are being satisfied
And just do not settle! The bond won't last that way and it is NOT worth it
A Kiss For You!
Email me with relationship questions! kissnicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Most relationships today have negative answers to "Do they make me happy?" "Do they respect me?" or "Do we have the same values?" "Am I satisfied in this relationship?"
There is a long list of fundamental questions to ask in a relationship to determine whether or not it is worth your time
Yes love is a big part but that's not all!
You could love someone who doesn't even like you so easily
It is about taking a look at how you feel in the relationship, if you feel amazing and great then it probably is
But if you are plagued with worries and stress then why stick around?
Life's short and wasting time with a person that doesn't deserve your time is stupid
We shouldn't settle for anyone, we should feel lucky!
Analyze the different parts of your relationship, each others values, each others flaws, look at how well you two work together
Remember it's not about being clones, it's about compatibility
Take an outside look at the quality of the relationship and be critical instead of lenient
Ask yourself obvious questions like if you are happy, if your needs are being satisfied
And just do not settle! The bond won't last that way and it is NOT worth it
A Kiss For You!
Email me with relationship questions! kissnicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Self Esteem Boost
Write a list of all the things you like about yourself
"Nice hair, pretty eyes, good sense of humor....."
They can even be small things like "I"m a tidy person"
Write what you like about your looks
Your personality
Your accomplishments
Your goals
Write everything good about all that is you!
Your self esteem will be through the roof when you realize your list is getting pretty big! haha
Keep going until you have filled the page up
Then keep this list to look at later when you're feeling down
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
"Nice hair, pretty eyes, good sense of humor....."
They can even be small things like "I"m a tidy person"
Write what you like about your looks
Your personality
Your accomplishments
Your goals
Write everything good about all that is you!
Your self esteem will be through the roof when you realize your list is getting pretty big! haha
Keep going until you have filled the page up
Then keep this list to look at later when you're feeling down
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Friday, July 8, 2011
You Are Your Biggest Enemy
Have you ever felt like you are your biggest enemy?
Sometimes we are just so mean to ourselves!
We think bad thoughts about our looks, our way of speaking, and our work performance-just to name a few
We can hold ourselves back from doing the things we really want to
Maybe with words like "Everybody will think I am weird"
Which is so odd because did everybody say "You are so weird if you do that...."
Not really
So why do we want to bully ourselves all the time?
Where does that come from?
It's almost like feeling good about yourself has become so rare in our society
It shouldn't be that way
We shouldn't be so hard on ourselves, it makes us unhappy!!
If you are your own biggest advocate then looking for other people's approval is unnecessary
If you took the time to build yourself up and make yourself feel good then nobody can come in the way of your happiness
Try to stop that pattern of thinking where all you do is tear yourself down
Listen to your thoughts and zone in on those pesky negative ones and replace them with good ones!
Controlling how you think takes practice because we are so stuck in our ways
And none of this is to be ashamed of, we all harshly critizice ourselves! You're not alone
Stop holding a grudge against yourself for making mistakes! We all make mistakes constantly, there's no avoiding that
Love yourself and everyone else will too! (sounds cheesy but it's absolutely true)
People don't want to have to be a mirror instead of a friend and constantly remind you you don't suck
Just love you and be you!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Take A Look
Take a look at your life
Look at where you live
Who you are surrounded by
What job you have
Look at all aspects of your life and what the reality is
Then look at each thing you wish your life was like
Compare the two and see what you can change to make the "reality" list look just like the "dream life" list
Breaking down each goal into smaller goals makes it easier to accomplish!
Set little goals for yourself and you are much more likely to succeed
I hope you all succeed! A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Look at where you live
Who you are surrounded by
What job you have
Look at all aspects of your life and what the reality is
Then look at each thing you wish your life was like
Compare the two and see what you can change to make the "reality" list look just like the "dream life" list
Breaking down each goal into smaller goals makes it easier to accomplish!
Set little goals for yourself and you are much more likely to succeed
I hope you all succeed! A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
You
You are
- Beautiful
- Funny
- Adventurous
- Intelligent
- Sweet
- Powerful
- Imaginative
- Sincere
- Successful
- Loyal
- Self-reliant
- Mature
- Chic
- Healthy
Ask me for any advice! Love you all <3
Love,
KissyNicole
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Parents
Parents can become the number one hindrance when trying to follow your dreams
They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky
Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."
That isn't very nice to hear is it?
It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things
But you know what?
Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love
Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too
Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want
But you will not be the audience anymore
Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky
Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."
That isn't very nice to hear is it?
It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things
But you know what?
Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love
Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too
Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want
But you will not be the audience anymore
Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Help Someone
Why do people love to hate on one another and make each other become isolated?
It doesn't get anyone anywhere
It just makes someone else's life suck a little more
But come on we are all people, going through the same shit
We have the potential to change someone's life
Start lending a hand to someone who needs it
Show someone you care
Show them they aren't alone
Become a shoulder to cry on
That can mean so much to someone who needs it...
I'm here to cry to, talk to, ask stuff to, whatever
I love you all :)
A kiss for you!
Email me <3
Love,
KissyNicole
It doesn't get anyone anywhere
It just makes someone else's life suck a little more
But come on we are all people, going through the same shit
We have the potential to change someone's life
Start lending a hand to someone who needs it
Show someone you care
Show them they aren't alone
Become a shoulder to cry on
That can mean so much to someone who needs it...
I'm here to cry to, talk to, ask stuff to, whatever
I love you all :)
A kiss for you!
Email me <3
Love,
KissyNicole
Monday, July 4, 2011
Sunday, July 3, 2011
Changes
Changes can be scary
They can come out of no where
It is a very surreal feeling when you know things will never be the same again
That can be hard to deal with sometimes
The main reason people struggle with change is they don't want to accept it
Once you accept the change, you don't have to like it necessarily, but just accept things are now totally different
That will help you cope with that strong change
Imagine your new life with this change (try to think positively)
Look at the change as it came for a reason, maybe you weren't doing something right?
Change gives us a little push into a certain direction
Figure out where this change is pushing you to go
Maybe it was made to make you a stronger person
Maybe to show you that lover wasn't right for you
Maybe to show you that job isn't for you
Maybe to push you into a better life
Think of change in a positive way like "Great! Now I can start a new chapter in my life"
The past is over now you can move on to being a happier, better, you :)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
They can come out of no where
It is a very surreal feeling when you know things will never be the same again
That can be hard to deal with sometimes
The main reason people struggle with change is they don't want to accept it
Once you accept the change, you don't have to like it necessarily, but just accept things are now totally different
That will help you cope with that strong change
Imagine your new life with this change (try to think positively)
Look at the change as it came for a reason, maybe you weren't doing something right?
Change gives us a little push into a certain direction
Figure out where this change is pushing you to go
Maybe it was made to make you a stronger person
Maybe to show you that lover wasn't right for you
Maybe to show you that job isn't for you
Maybe to push you into a better life
Think of change in a positive way like "Great! Now I can start a new chapter in my life"
The past is over now you can move on to being a happier, better, you :)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, June 30, 2011
The Basics
Let's get back to the basics
Tons of people neglect the basics in life and then wonder why their lives aren't how they want it to be
First things first, self esteem, if you don't feel like you are worth having the best, you will never have it because you can't accept that you deserve it!
Next is confidence, self esteem and confidence seem to be the same but they aren't. Self esteem is feeling good about you and loving yourself but without confidence those will take you no where. Confidence gets you to take risks, it makes you feel secure whilst taking your risks. Risk is the only way to get anywhere in life.
Morals, have your own set of morals and rules and stick with them. Don't let other people sway you because if you do, you're trying to be like them, and trying to be like others messes you up! Anyone who has ever became successful in life did it their OWN way, not by following others. You are you, own it, live it, love it.
The rest will follow. If you are true to you, love and respect you, and stay firm with what you want and do what you love to do NO ONE and nothing can stop you! It's as easy as that :)
You make your future happen, you decide, you are in control, some people don't know what to do with that much power so they give it up and let fear take over because it's easier. Life shouldn't be easy, if it's easy then man it becomes SO boring!!
Work on the basics of you, who you are, and work on loving yourself!
Then you can start to work on your dreams!
A kiss for you!!!!
Love,
KissyNicole
Tons of people neglect the basics in life and then wonder why their lives aren't how they want it to be
First things first, self esteem, if you don't feel like you are worth having the best, you will never have it because you can't accept that you deserve it!
Next is confidence, self esteem and confidence seem to be the same but they aren't. Self esteem is feeling good about you and loving yourself but without confidence those will take you no where. Confidence gets you to take risks, it makes you feel secure whilst taking your risks. Risk is the only way to get anywhere in life.
Morals, have your own set of morals and rules and stick with them. Don't let other people sway you because if you do, you're trying to be like them, and trying to be like others messes you up! Anyone who has ever became successful in life did it their OWN way, not by following others. You are you, own it, live it, love it.
The rest will follow. If you are true to you, love and respect you, and stay firm with what you want and do what you love to do NO ONE and nothing can stop you! It's as easy as that :)
You make your future happen, you decide, you are in control, some people don't know what to do with that much power so they give it up and let fear take over because it's easier. Life shouldn't be easy, if it's easy then man it becomes SO boring!!
Work on the basics of you, who you are, and work on loving yourself!
Then you can start to work on your dreams!
A kiss for you!!!!
Love,
KissyNicole
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