Been so long since I wrote something
Today is 9/11 and for any American that date sticks out in our minds so strongly
I feel like crying
I hope that those lost do not feel anymore pain or sorrow for what happened and they have successfully moved on
I hope that those living that were effected are able to live a happy life still
I really hope huge crisises like this do NOT happen again
I hope we all realize one day that we all are the same, same humans, same hearts
And because of that similarity we should stand together not apart
All we have to not feel alone is each other
I hope we learn to work together one day and then we will see how powerful we really can be
A Kiss For You
Love,
KissyNicole
Sunday, September 11, 2011
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
When Is It Over?
How can we know when a relationship is over?
That sounds silly and easy but come on, figuring out when to call it quits is nearly impossible
And the longer a bad relationship gets drawn out, the more it hurts
Good thing is- almost all of us have battled with this
Here are some questions to ask yourself to help determine, Over or not?
That sounds silly and easy but come on, figuring out when to call it quits is nearly impossible
And the longer a bad relationship gets drawn out, the more it hurts
Good thing is- almost all of us have battled with this
Here are some questions to ask yourself to help determine, Over or not?
- Are you more often happy or sad when with this person?
- Is it easy to get into fights?
- Does he/she normally really hurt your feelings and not even seem to care?
- Do you see a long future with this person?
- Do you share similar values/life goals?
In the end it's only going to be you and that other person deciding what to do
No one can really have an opinion about it because, they aren't in the relationship too!
So don't let what others say bother you
And if you are REALLY in a sticky situation (the relationship is 50% good 50% bad)
Ask yourself
Is the 50% bad worth going through to get the 50% good part?
If yes then congrats!
If yes then congrats!
Remember: don't stick around in a relationship that you know isn't getting any better
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
P.S.- No one has to be shunned out of your life if you decide they are not good for you, there always is the option of being just friends :)
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Honesty
Why is it so hard for people to be HONEST?
Being honest is almost so rare now a days that I just don't even want to trust anymore
People need to teach their kids when they are young to tell the truth no matter what
Not being honest is where girls get their hearts broken, where people get into even deeper trouble, and where trust is lost for a very long time
It is silly to not be truthful
Even to people you don't know
It's a very admirable quality to have, so start possessing it TODAY
Own up for what you've done, or make someone see the real you, all is possible with telling the truth
Save someone heartbreak over finding out you're a liar by NOT doing it
One thing is certainly agreeable by everyone:
We all would like some more honesty more often!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Being honest is almost so rare now a days that I just don't even want to trust anymore
People need to teach their kids when they are young to tell the truth no matter what
Not being honest is where girls get their hearts broken, where people get into even deeper trouble, and where trust is lost for a very long time
It is silly to not be truthful
Even to people you don't know
It's a very admirable quality to have, so start possessing it TODAY
Own up for what you've done, or make someone see the real you, all is possible with telling the truth
Save someone heartbreak over finding out you're a liar by NOT doing it
One thing is certainly agreeable by everyone:
We all would like some more honesty more often!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Negative People
Do you know anyone that can just turn any situation into a crappy one?
They are absolutely the most annoying people to be around!! All they care about is drama
Not matter what, it is like it's physically impossible for them to just laugh something off and get over it
Keep yourself AWAY from people like that
and if you ARE like that, STOP immediately, you're pushing people away from you
Everyone wants to be around people that make them laugh and that inspire them to see the good in everything
Be that person or get to know people like that
Who you surround yourself with greatly effects you
So.....
Be around good and good will come to you!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
They are absolutely the most annoying people to be around!! All they care about is drama
Not matter what, it is like it's physically impossible for them to just laugh something off and get over it
Keep yourself AWAY from people like that
and if you ARE like that, STOP immediately, you're pushing people away from you
Everyone wants to be around people that make them laugh and that inspire them to see the good in everything
Be that person or get to know people like that
Who you surround yourself with greatly effects you
So.....
Be around good and good will come to you!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Follow Your Dreams
Anything you wanted to do but just never did it?
Have a secret passion for something but you never followed through with it?
Use all your time here on this earth chasing or doing what you love because if you don't
Then what's the point of even doing anything at all
Doing what you love makes your job not feel like a job
It makes all your time fun
It makes you feel fulfilled and happy
It is maybe the best thing you can do for yourself
so.......
DO IT
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Have a secret passion for something but you never followed through with it?
Use all your time here on this earth chasing or doing what you love because if you don't
Then what's the point of even doing anything at all
Doing what you love makes your job not feel like a job
It makes all your time fun
It makes you feel fulfilled and happy
It is maybe the best thing you can do for yourself
so.......
DO IT
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Monday, August 15, 2011
Kids Are Smarter Than Adults
Kids are younger than us yet they know more than us
They live happy carefree adventurous lives
while most of us struggle to be content and stress free
We have a lot to learn from children for sure!
But remember we were all kids once, we have the experience and knowledge to go back to that state of mind
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Email me, let me know what your thinking! kissynicole2@live.com
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They live happy carefree adventurous lives
while most of us struggle to be content and stress free
We have a lot to learn from children for sure!
But remember we were all kids once, we have the experience and knowledge to go back to that state of mind
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Email me, let me know what your thinking! kissynicole2@live.com
Answer my poll question located on the ride side of my bloggity, pwease ---->
Opinions
Everyone has an opinion about everything
Everyone has a specific view on a subject
There are millions of different opinions out there
So in the big scheme of things, who is really right?
Can anyone ever be right?
Is there such a thing as being "right" on something?
I say listen to yourself and what you think, that is the best way to live your life
And if people think you are "wrong" there will always be a handful of others thinking you're "right"
So be happy doing your own thing!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
P.S. How about this: WE ALL ARE RIGHT! Now there is nothing to fight about ha
Everyone has a specific view on a subject
There are millions of different opinions out there
So in the big scheme of things, who is really right?
Can anyone ever be right?
Is there such a thing as being "right" on something?
I say listen to yourself and what you think, that is the best way to live your life
And if people think you are "wrong" there will always be a handful of others thinking you're "right"
So be happy doing your own thing!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
P.S. How about this: WE ALL ARE RIGHT! Now there is nothing to fight about ha
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Remember
Remember that we are all
beautiful
amazing
funny
lovable
inspiring
intelligent
brave
to someone
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
beautiful
amazing
funny
lovable
inspiring
intelligent
brave
to someone
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Check Out Twitter
Twitter is a really fun social networking site that cuts out all the extra stuff like customizing profiles and "walls"
You can go on there and follow your favorite people
For example you can follow your favorite celebrity and see what they are saying instantly
Or you can also follow people who tweet inspirational quotes
That is a real mood booster!
That's very beneficial to your overall health to be reminded every so often of the good things in life
You can also connect with friends
It really is fun
I highly recommend creating a Twitter
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Check out my Twitter! twitter.com/Kissy_Nicole
You can go on there and follow your favorite people
For example you can follow your favorite celebrity and see what they are saying instantly
Or you can also follow people who tweet inspirational quotes
That is a real mood booster!
That's very beneficial to your overall health to be reminded every so often of the good things in life
You can also connect with friends
It really is fun
I highly recommend creating a Twitter
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Check out my Twitter! twitter.com/Kissy_Nicole
Disapproval From Others
Hello again!
This particular subject really affects everyone!
It can be so frustrating when others like family or friends don't approve of the way you want to live when you are perfectly happy!
They should be supportive and should love anything you do but....
We are all not so lucky sometimes
Then how can you deal with this disapproval?
If they are willing to shun you and never speak to you again then hey, they are not worth the effort
If they simply lecture you or act differently in a negative way because of this thing or person then there is something you can do
Come up with valid reasons as to why you want to continue this thing and present them to that person in a non-argumentative way
And if that will not convince them then simply stop talking about this subject which they disapprove of
It avoids an argument and you can find someone else to talk to and confide in
Don't lay all your chips in on one person because when they reject you it will be that much more devastating
Instead confide in more than one person so there will always be a listening ear!
If you can't modify someone else, modify yourself because you are all you have control over
and most importantly make it a good habit to surround yourself with supportive loving people, family or friends!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
This particular subject really affects everyone!
It can be so frustrating when others like family or friends don't approve of the way you want to live when you are perfectly happy!
They should be supportive and should love anything you do but....
We are all not so lucky sometimes
Then how can you deal with this disapproval?
If they are willing to shun you and never speak to you again then hey, they are not worth the effort
If they simply lecture you or act differently in a negative way because of this thing or person then there is something you can do
Come up with valid reasons as to why you want to continue this thing and present them to that person in a non-argumentative way
And if that will not convince them then simply stop talking about this subject which they disapprove of
It avoids an argument and you can find someone else to talk to and confide in
Don't lay all your chips in on one person because when they reject you it will be that much more devastating
Instead confide in more than one person so there will always be a listening ear!
If you can't modify someone else, modify yourself because you are all you have control over
and most importantly make it a good habit to surround yourself with supportive loving people, family or friends!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Bad Situations
I'm going to lay it out for you
If you are in a bad situation that you are miserable being in you have options
Change the situation, move away or get a job so you can leave for example
And if you can't change the situation.....
Make it your decision to stop caring
Things can only effect you as much as you let it
Regain that control and stop caring, stop listening, zone out when this bad situation starts to give you stress
The same thing can only upset you so often
Then after a while when the situation doesn't change and you are still getting upset, then it becomes your fault
Take back the control you deserve
Be happy everyone!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
If you are in a bad situation that you are miserable being in you have options
Change the situation, move away or get a job so you can leave for example
And if you can't change the situation.....
Make it your decision to stop caring
Things can only effect you as much as you let it
Regain that control and stop caring, stop listening, zone out when this bad situation starts to give you stress
The same thing can only upset you so often
Then after a while when the situation doesn't change and you are still getting upset, then it becomes your fault
Take back the control you deserve
Be happy everyone!
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Some Positivity For You!
Hello!
Guess what!
You are amazing!
No one else is like you
Nothing lasts forever
People who hate are miserable on the inside
The weather is nice today
Everyone has a talent of some kind
You are able to read this right now
As long as you live, there will always be a new day to try it again :)
At least one person loves you, and that's me!
Never feel alone, email me: kissynicole2@live.com
follow on twitter: @Kissy_Nicole
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Guess what!
You are amazing!
No one else is like you
Nothing lasts forever
People who hate are miserable on the inside
The weather is nice today
Everyone has a talent of some kind
You are able to read this right now
As long as you live, there will always be a new day to try it again :)
At least one person loves you, and that's me!
Never feel alone, email me: kissynicole2@live.com
follow on twitter: @Kissy_Nicole
A Kiss For You!
Love,
KissyNicole
Pups
Anyone have a dog?If you do you know how amazing it is!
They can be your very best friend, someone there to cry to, someone that won't judge just be there for you when you most need it
And it also makes it really fun to come home to that waggy tail and kisses!
If you don't have a doggy, I suggest going out and getting one as soon as possible
And if money is an issue, get a smaller dog, less food to buy, less poop to pick up
It's a win win!
Dogs help you live longer, they relieve tons of stress and they often do silly little things that will make you burst out laughing
Seriously consider getting a puppy!
Or thank your little guy that he is already with you, I know I'm thankful!
A kiss for you!
Love
KissyNicole
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Exercise
Just got done exercising and wow!
I am out of shape!
I bet you if you did some exercising too you would find that you too are out of shape as well
It seems so easy to just forget about exercising and go on with your lives
But honestly it is super important
Just exercising 3-4 times a week can knock out tons of diseases
It will keep you young!
Relieve stress!
Up your energy level
Help you look like a perfect 10 in a swimsuit
And most importantly it will make you feel so much better, mind and body
Take that time to exercise, in your own home even, there is no excuse!
Give yourself 20 minutes a day to improve your life
That's less time than one TV show!
Do whatever works for you and the benefits will be well worth it!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
I am out of shape!
I bet you if you did some exercising too you would find that you too are out of shape as well
It seems so easy to just forget about exercising and go on with your lives
But honestly it is super important
Just exercising 3-4 times a week can knock out tons of diseases
It will keep you young!
Relieve stress!
Up your energy level
Help you look like a perfect 10 in a swimsuit
And most importantly it will make you feel so much better, mind and body
Take that time to exercise, in your own home even, there is no excuse!
Give yourself 20 minutes a day to improve your life
That's less time than one TV show!
Do whatever works for you and the benefits will be well worth it!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Monday, August 8, 2011
Are You Weird?
If you think you are "weird" or "different" or "crazy" from time to time then
Congrats!
You have broken the mold of boringness
Did anyone ever really listen to someone who was considered boring and normal?
Nope
The people that are considered to be "weird" are the people who change the world
And it is a special club not many can get in
Be proud that you are in this exclusive category!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Congrats!
You have broken the mold of boringness
Did anyone ever really listen to someone who was considered boring and normal?
Nope
The people that are considered to be "weird" are the people who change the world
And it is a special club not many can get in
Be proud that you are in this exclusive category!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Greener Grass
Listen up!
Never compare your life to others and go wishing you had their lives instead of yours
Because the grass is always going to be greener somewhere else
There will always be someone richer, more successful, happier, more beautiful than you, and more "SOMETHING" than you
Appreciate what you have because there could be someone out there wishing they had your life
Your house, your job, your kids
We all have lives worth envying by others!
Enjoy your own life, it's much more fun that way
(and guess what, by enjoying your own life, others will wish they had your life!)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Never compare your life to others and go wishing you had their lives instead of yours
Because the grass is always going to be greener somewhere else
There will always be someone richer, more successful, happier, more beautiful than you, and more "SOMETHING" than you
Appreciate what you have because there could be someone out there wishing they had your life
Your house, your job, your kids
We all have lives worth envying by others!
Enjoy your own life, it's much more fun that way
(and guess what, by enjoying your own life, others will wish they had your life!)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
The News And Negativity
Does anyone else see how negative the news is?
It is like they are incapable of reporting the good things that happen
For example recently I have heard the word "debt" maybe a million times on the news
They can not stop talking about how bad the economy is!
If you want to watch TV I suggest you watch happy things
By surrounding ourselves with words like "debt", "death" and other negative things then it subconsciously puts a dark cloud over us
Even if things aren't directly effecting you, our subconscious is still listening and soaks information up like a sponge
Keep the negative things out by making sure you are surrounding yourself with good things like comedies, good friends, pretty music, anything that creates a happy feeling for you
Do this and you will feel much healthier and happier instantly!
A kiss for you!!
Email me: kissynicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
It is like they are incapable of reporting the good things that happen
For example recently I have heard the word "debt" maybe a million times on the news
They can not stop talking about how bad the economy is!
If you want to watch TV I suggest you watch happy things
By surrounding ourselves with words like "debt", "death" and other negative things then it subconsciously puts a dark cloud over us
Even if things aren't directly effecting you, our subconscious is still listening and soaks information up like a sponge
Keep the negative things out by making sure you are surrounding yourself with good things like comedies, good friends, pretty music, anything that creates a happy feeling for you
Do this and you will feel much healthier and happier instantly!
A kiss for you!!
Email me: kissynicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Friday, August 5, 2011
Settling In A Relationship
Why do we always settle?
Most relationships today have negative answers to "Do they make me happy?" "Do they respect me?" or "Do we have the same values?" "Am I satisfied in this relationship?"
There is a long list of fundamental questions to ask in a relationship to determine whether or not it is worth your time
Yes love is a big part but that's not all!
You could love someone who doesn't even like you so easily
It is about taking a look at how you feel in the relationship, if you feel amazing and great then it probably is
But if you are plagued with worries and stress then why stick around?
Life's short and wasting time with a person that doesn't deserve your time is stupid
We shouldn't settle for anyone, we should feel lucky!
Analyze the different parts of your relationship, each others values, each others flaws, look at how well you two work together
Remember it's not about being clones, it's about compatibility
Take an outside look at the quality of the relationship and be critical instead of lenient
Ask yourself obvious questions like if you are happy, if your needs are being satisfied
And just do not settle! The bond won't last that way and it is NOT worth it
A Kiss For You!
Email me with relationship questions! kissnicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Most relationships today have negative answers to "Do they make me happy?" "Do they respect me?" or "Do we have the same values?" "Am I satisfied in this relationship?"
There is a long list of fundamental questions to ask in a relationship to determine whether or not it is worth your time
Yes love is a big part but that's not all!
You could love someone who doesn't even like you so easily
It is about taking a look at how you feel in the relationship, if you feel amazing and great then it probably is
But if you are plagued with worries and stress then why stick around?
Life's short and wasting time with a person that doesn't deserve your time is stupid
We shouldn't settle for anyone, we should feel lucky!
Analyze the different parts of your relationship, each others values, each others flaws, look at how well you two work together
Remember it's not about being clones, it's about compatibility
Take an outside look at the quality of the relationship and be critical instead of lenient
Ask yourself obvious questions like if you are happy, if your needs are being satisfied
And just do not settle! The bond won't last that way and it is NOT worth it
A Kiss For You!
Email me with relationship questions! kissnicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Break Up
Wow a break up is so hard to deal with!
It can even be in your favor yet still you find yourself missing that person all the time
It is like your mind thinks in "good" mode when you break up
All you can remember is the good things!!
But honestly there was a break up for a reason
And that reason needs to be accepted and believed to be truth or else your head will go crazy spinning around trying to get that person back
It is a sad thing to deal with but as one goes almost always another follows that makes you happy again :)
Keep hope alive that you will move on and don't try to move on as quickly as possible
Give yourself a good amount of time so that the next relationship isn't flawed by the old one
Email me if you need help during a break up!
A kiss for you! I love you!
Love,
KissyNicole
It can even be in your favor yet still you find yourself missing that person all the time
It is like your mind thinks in "good" mode when you break up
All you can remember is the good things!!
But honestly there was a break up for a reason
And that reason needs to be accepted and believed to be truth or else your head will go crazy spinning around trying to get that person back
It is a sad thing to deal with but as one goes almost always another follows that makes you happy again :)
Keep hope alive that you will move on and don't try to move on as quickly as possible
Give yourself a good amount of time so that the next relationship isn't flawed by the old one
Email me if you need help during a break up!
A kiss for you! I love you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Your Destiny
Hello!
I haven't written much in the last few days as I have been very sad about Amy Winehouse's death
As much as I hate it I always felt like it was her destiny to be great and then pass to join the other greats that have died young like Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, and Kurt Cobain
They all can finally be in peace and sing together :)
Anyways I could see in her eyes and through her music that she was a tortured soul, as am I
Maybe it was destiny for her to touch the world with her music
Which got me thinking about my own destiny
How about you? Do you feel you were meant to do something?
Hopefully whatever career you have is what you feel deep down you were meant to do, if not, change that immediately!
I believe we were all meant to do something, some talent, some devotion to something that we will have success in no matter what
We must follow that little voice inside us that tells us what we need to do
Find that thing that lights a fire in your heart and never let it go
So although Amy died young, she still showed the world her talent and changed the lives of millions with her music and unique sense of style
That was a HUGE accomplishment, and for that I love her
She will forever motivate me to go for it!
I hope to motivate another.....
And show the world that you aren't alone
And that we all can achieve extraordinary things by following what our heart tells us
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
I haven't written much in the last few days as I have been very sad about Amy Winehouse's death
As much as I hate it I always felt like it was her destiny to be great and then pass to join the other greats that have died young like Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, and Kurt Cobain
They all can finally be in peace and sing together :)
Anyways I could see in her eyes and through her music that she was a tortured soul, as am I
Maybe it was destiny for her to touch the world with her music
Which got me thinking about my own destiny
How about you? Do you feel you were meant to do something?
Hopefully whatever career you have is what you feel deep down you were meant to do, if not, change that immediately!
I believe we were all meant to do something, some talent, some devotion to something that we will have success in no matter what
We must follow that little voice inside us that tells us what we need to do
Find that thing that lights a fire in your heart and never let it go
So although Amy died young, she still showed the world her talent and changed the lives of millions with her music and unique sense of style
That was a HUGE accomplishment, and for that I love her
She will forever motivate me to go for it!
I hope to motivate another.....
And show the world that you aren't alone
And that we all can achieve extraordinary things by following what our heart tells us
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Ever Felt Truly Alone?
Have you ever felt truly alone?
Not just alone at the time but like really alone alone
No one to express your feelings to, no one to confide in
No one you can really ask for help
Well here is some good news!
We all feel like that sometimes
And I'm here to be that person to talk to
About anything you need too!!
Loneliness is the worst, trust me, I know....
So I have made myself available to anyone who needs it!
Shoot me an email about whatever
kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Not just alone at the time but like really alone alone
No one to express your feelings to, no one to confide in
No one you can really ask for help
Well here is some good news!
We all feel like that sometimes
And I'm here to be that person to talk to
About anything you need too!!
Loneliness is the worst, trust me, I know....
So I have made myself available to anyone who needs it!
Shoot me an email about whatever
kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Self Worth
So self worth
How do you see yourself?
You may think you have really good self worth but in reality you could be secretly putting yourself down
In everyday conversations we tend to make jokes about things and ourselves
And sometimes these jokes are actually negative to yourself
For example maybe making a joke about how awful your hair looks that day or joking about how badly you messed up on something
Yes, sometimes we truly are joking but then sometimes we are joking just to appear fine to others
Don't do that!
Make it a habit of catching those nasty little remarks you may have been thinking about you
They seem small and not worth the effort but really all that can build up and in turn effect your self worth
We have all these thoughts in one day, thousands!
And if we are joking or being serious and putting ourselves down that puts our whole life down
Our life around us comes from us!
And if the starting point is bad, the rest will follow
Feeling good about you is the most fundamental part of having an amazing life
No one wants to feel bad about themselves! It is a waste of your time
So look at you
Look at what you think of you
And if there is anything you don't like
Correct it!! Because the only one who can is you!
And take it slow and simple so you won't be overwhelmed :)
P.S. If you need any help on how to fix a specific thing about yourself, feel free to write me an email kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
How do you see yourself?
You may think you have really good self worth but in reality you could be secretly putting yourself down
In everyday conversations we tend to make jokes about things and ourselves
And sometimes these jokes are actually negative to yourself
For example maybe making a joke about how awful your hair looks that day or joking about how badly you messed up on something
Yes, sometimes we truly are joking but then sometimes we are joking just to appear fine to others
Don't do that!
Make it a habit of catching those nasty little remarks you may have been thinking about you
They seem small and not worth the effort but really all that can build up and in turn effect your self worth
We have all these thoughts in one day, thousands!
And if we are joking or being serious and putting ourselves down that puts our whole life down
Our life around us comes from us!
And if the starting point is bad, the rest will follow
Feeling good about you is the most fundamental part of having an amazing life
No one wants to feel bad about themselves! It is a waste of your time
So look at you
Look at what you think of you
And if there is anything you don't like
Correct it!! Because the only one who can is you!
And take it slow and simple so you won't be overwhelmed :)
P.S. If you need any help on how to fix a specific thing about yourself, feel free to write me an email kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Hello Again ;)
So I haven't been writing posts for a while, sorry!
There have been lots of things to sort out in my head
Relationships, Love, Friends, My Self Worth....
All flooding in at once!
Ever have that feeling?
The feeling where life throws a whole bunch of things your way and your head is just spinning from all the new information
The main thing I want to focus on is our own self worth
I believe a huge part of this comes from our parents and how high up on the pedestal they put us
At a young age if you believe you aren't worth anything, then you keep thinking that
Even if it's in the very back of your mind, it still can be there
And not just parents, anyone who put us down and we accepted it as truth
But listen to where your self worth is coming from, it usually is negative!
Stop that negative process!
We CAN do what we want most in life
and we WILL
nothing is stopping you but yourself!
More on this later!! :)
There have been lots of things to sort out in my head
Relationships, Love, Friends, My Self Worth....
All flooding in at once!
Ever have that feeling?
The feeling where life throws a whole bunch of things your way and your head is just spinning from all the new information
The main thing I want to focus on is our own self worth
I believe a huge part of this comes from our parents and how high up on the pedestal they put us
At a young age if you believe you aren't worth anything, then you keep thinking that
Even if it's in the very back of your mind, it still can be there
And not just parents, anyone who put us down and we accepted it as truth
But listen to where your self worth is coming from, it usually is negative!
Stop that negative process!
We CAN do what we want most in life
and we WILL
nothing is stopping you but yourself!
More on this later!! :)
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
My Birthday
It is my birthday today, whoo hoo!!
It's kind of funny how we celebrate them and mark every year we get older
We should base our success on how healthy we are as we age! Not by a silly number
Being healthy can not be taken for granted
It is so precious even though we don't really pay attention to it
It could take years of poor eating and bad habits to affect your health
but when it does, it won't be pretty!
Just because it isn't an instant thing, don't be dumb about your health
Imagine being older hooked up to a breathing tank, relying on it to simply breathe!
then imagine being older jogging in a beautiful forest, breathing in that clean air
Which do you want?
And here is the truth if you want to jog in a forest later in life ha
You need to start now, start eating better and exercising
It really helps your mood, how you feel, overall health, everything!
You will feel amazing if you give up KFC more often lol
There is no two ways about it!
Either do your body good or suffer some painful uncomfortable consequences
We all know what we should be doing for our health
Now let's just DO it already!!!!!
A kiss for you!
I know my health isn't so great and I'm young so I will be working on that now most definitely
Join me! Email me with your progress or with questions!
Love,
KissyNicole
It's kind of funny how we celebrate them and mark every year we get older
We should base our success on how healthy we are as we age! Not by a silly number
Being healthy can not be taken for granted
It is so precious even though we don't really pay attention to it
It could take years of poor eating and bad habits to affect your health
but when it does, it won't be pretty!
Just because it isn't an instant thing, don't be dumb about your health
Imagine being older hooked up to a breathing tank, relying on it to simply breathe!
then imagine being older jogging in a beautiful forest, breathing in that clean air
Which do you want?
And here is the truth if you want to jog in a forest later in life ha
You need to start now, start eating better and exercising
It really helps your mood, how you feel, overall health, everything!
You will feel amazing if you give up KFC more often lol
There is no two ways about it!
Either do your body good or suffer some painful uncomfortable consequences
We all know what we should be doing for our health
Now let's just DO it already!!!!!
A kiss for you!
I know my health isn't so great and I'm young so I will be working on that now most definitely
Join me! Email me with your progress or with questions!
Love,
KissyNicole
Monday, July 11, 2011
Love Lost
Losing someone you love like in a break up can be hard to cope with
Sometimes break ups are ok and you can deal with it because you know it's the right thing to do
But sometimes you watch that person over the course of your relationship fall out of love with you
Like a slow-motion car crash
Your gut is wrenching with anticipation of what you know will happen
That can be one of the most painful things to go through because of how slow and torturous it is!
Good news is that you're not alone if this has happened to you
And the other good news is that it isn't the end of the world
This person may have been "One in a million....." to you
But guess what, you have 999,999 more people to check out too! ha
No really! There are WAY more than just nine hundred thousand people out there
There are millions!
And guess what else, those are some pretty good odds to find another that fits you better than the last one did
So take your time and start looking for that better individual that will make you happier than you've ever been!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Sometimes break ups are ok and you can deal with it because you know it's the right thing to do
But sometimes you watch that person over the course of your relationship fall out of love with you
Like a slow-motion car crash
Your gut is wrenching with anticipation of what you know will happen
That can be one of the most painful things to go through because of how slow and torturous it is!
Good news is that you're not alone if this has happened to you
And the other good news is that it isn't the end of the world
This person may have been "One in a million....." to you
But guess what, you have 999,999 more people to check out too! ha
No really! There are WAY more than just nine hundred thousand people out there
There are millions!
And guess what else, those are some pretty good odds to find another that fits you better than the last one did
So take your time and start looking for that better individual that will make you happier than you've ever been!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Self Esteem Boost
Write a list of all the things you like about yourself
"Nice hair, pretty eyes, good sense of humor....."
They can even be small things like "I"m a tidy person"
Write what you like about your looks
Your personality
Your accomplishments
Your goals
Write everything good about all that is you!
Your self esteem will be through the roof when you realize your list is getting pretty big! haha
Keep going until you have filled the page up
Then keep this list to look at later when you're feeling down
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
"Nice hair, pretty eyes, good sense of humor....."
They can even be small things like "I"m a tidy person"
Write what you like about your looks
Your personality
Your accomplishments
Your goals
Write everything good about all that is you!
Your self esteem will be through the roof when you realize your list is getting pretty big! haha
Keep going until you have filled the page up
Then keep this list to look at later when you're feeling down
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Word Journal
Here is a great tip to keep your goals in sight and keep you in a good mood!
Take some sort of scrapbook, Just a book with a lot of blank white pages
Everyday write in it words
The words can be colorful or plain, whatever suits you
Make one page about your dreams
It could say "Fashion career, family, nice house etc etc"
Use words to describe the life you want (make them all positive)
Then everyday use your creativity to write a page with just random words on things you like or would like!
And I don't mean writing as in writing a story
I mean just one phrase each, floating around, like the dream board only with just words!
Then whenever you want you can look at these words and visualize them in your mind
Seeing what you want outside your head helps you stay focused on them!
This scrapbook can be a private little pick-me-up and reminder of your future :)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Take some sort of scrapbook, Just a book with a lot of blank white pages
Everyday write in it words
The words can be colorful or plain, whatever suits you
Make one page about your dreams
It could say "Fashion career, family, nice house etc etc"
Use words to describe the life you want (make them all positive)
Then everyday use your creativity to write a page with just random words on things you like or would like!
And I don't mean writing as in writing a story
I mean just one phrase each, floating around, like the dream board only with just words!
Then whenever you want you can look at these words and visualize them in your mind
Seeing what you want outside your head helps you stay focused on them!
This scrapbook can be a private little pick-me-up and reminder of your future :)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Hate Nice Relationships
Nice good wonderful but not "perfect" relationships are SO darn hard to let go off
It wasn't all good so you know you have to stop being together
But it wasn't all bad so you feel like letting go of that good part is so painful and difficult to do
It is much easier to let go of an asshole!
You can watch them walk away like "Glad that's over!"
But with these pesky "really good when it was good but bad when it was bad" relationships, they get stuck onto you like super glue
It is like your heart gets ripped in half, into totally equal parts
Like you love this that and the other about the person then there is that one or two things.....
Those things you can not stand
And then you think about breaking up....
This can make you flip flop for months! Even years!
Too bad there isn't a relationship fairy to tell you which decision is the right one for you!
Luckily I'm here to lend a hand to the utterly conflicted!
Remember: Only you can really know what goes on between the two of you so take what others say light hearted
I am still here for advice anytime! Let me know and I can do my best to help!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
kissynicole2@live.com
It wasn't all good so you know you have to stop being together
But it wasn't all bad so you feel like letting go of that good part is so painful and difficult to do
It is much easier to let go of an asshole!
You can watch them walk away like "Glad that's over!"
But with these pesky "really good when it was good but bad when it was bad" relationships, they get stuck onto you like super glue
It is like your heart gets ripped in half, into totally equal parts
Like you love this that and the other about the person then there is that one or two things.....
Those things you can not stand
And then you think about breaking up....
This can make you flip flop for months! Even years!
Too bad there isn't a relationship fairy to tell you which decision is the right one for you!
Luckily I'm here to lend a hand to the utterly conflicted!
Remember: Only you can really know what goes on between the two of you so take what others say light hearted
I am still here for advice anytime! Let me know and I can do my best to help!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
kissynicole2@live.com
Depression Is Conquerable
Depression, actual depression, not just "being sad" is tough
It can consume a person and lead to their death in some cases
And it isn't really talked about all that often
but why? a lot of us have had that really dark time in our lives
this is a some what common thing here!
What is hard though is when you can't get out of it
When you really have lost all hope
Lost friends, lost family, lost everything that ever meant anything to you
People that go through that need help
I have had my own problems with depression for maybe 5 years?
It was such a dark time I can't remember time, a month could feel like years and time was just all a mess
Everything was a mess!
It is the worst place to be in
A kind of prisoner in your own mind
Your negative or numbed out thoughts control you
And they can get this unrelenting hold on your spirit
Like you are not you anymore
Like you died and were no longer there
So awful!
No one should stay stuck in that
The amazing news though is that it can be conquered
And the new outlook on life you will have after will be so much more valuable than people who have not experienced this profound hurdle
The first few steps have to be reaching out to someone, anyone, even a stranger, maybe even me!
You are worth the effort it takes to cure the depression
And it is not as hard as it may seem, I promise
Depression is not this impossible thing to overcome
Don't look at it that way, Look at it in a temporary way like "this is terrible, but it will pass"
Be your own mirror
Look at how you think
Look at how you speak to others
Look at your life
Recognize that, that life is not good for you and that it must change now
You can ask me for help with this issue or check out these two links to great information
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/depression/DS00175
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/depression_tips.htm
You don't have to be "diagnosed" to start trying to help yourself out
But as some advice, when you can not cure yourself, look to outside help like a doctor
Sometimes it's all just your darn hormones acting up in a weird way
But when it's all your thoughts, YOU have the power to change that and get better
Everyone deserves a happy life, everyone!
So start making the steps you need to take and just do it
I've done it and you can too!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Friday, July 8, 2011
A Wonderful Thought......
A wonderful thought just popped into my head.....
When striving for your biggest most amazing fantastic dreams that would make you the happiest person alive,
You don't need to know how you will get there
That's the beauty of the universe, it figures out the "how"
You just need to get going
Start going down that road to your goals and all these opportunities will appear
Let's say you got in your car and went on a random road trip to go somewhere amazing
But you didn't know exactly how to get there....
You would check for road signs along the way not try and predict where to turn on your own (we aren't all psychic!)
That's half the fun of life, not knowing!
Quit trying to predict the signs and just get going!!!
A kiss for you!! Email me! Don't be shy! kissynicole2@live.com
Love you always,
KissyNicole
When striving for your biggest most amazing fantastic dreams that would make you the happiest person alive,
You don't need to know how you will get there
That's the beauty of the universe, it figures out the "how"
You just need to get going
Start going down that road to your goals and all these opportunities will appear
Let's say you got in your car and went on a random road trip to go somewhere amazing
But you didn't know exactly how to get there....
You would check for road signs along the way not try and predict where to turn on your own (we aren't all psychic!)
That's half the fun of life, not knowing!
Quit trying to predict the signs and just get going!!!
A kiss for you!! Email me! Don't be shy! kissynicole2@live.com
Love you always,
KissyNicole
You Are Your Biggest Enemy
Have you ever felt like you are your biggest enemy?
Sometimes we are just so mean to ourselves!
We think bad thoughts about our looks, our way of speaking, and our work performance-just to name a few
We can hold ourselves back from doing the things we really want to
Maybe with words like "Everybody will think I am weird"
Which is so odd because did everybody say "You are so weird if you do that...."
Not really
So why do we want to bully ourselves all the time?
Where does that come from?
It's almost like feeling good about yourself has become so rare in our society
It shouldn't be that way
We shouldn't be so hard on ourselves, it makes us unhappy!!
If you are your own biggest advocate then looking for other people's approval is unnecessary
If you took the time to build yourself up and make yourself feel good then nobody can come in the way of your happiness
Try to stop that pattern of thinking where all you do is tear yourself down
Listen to your thoughts and zone in on those pesky negative ones and replace them with good ones!
Controlling how you think takes practice because we are so stuck in our ways
And none of this is to be ashamed of, we all harshly critizice ourselves! You're not alone
Stop holding a grudge against yourself for making mistakes! We all make mistakes constantly, there's no avoiding that
Love yourself and everyone else will too! (sounds cheesy but it's absolutely true)
People don't want to have to be a mirror instead of a friend and constantly remind you you don't suck
Just love you and be you!
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, July 7, 2011
The Ocean
The ocean is very beautiful to me
It is my place of calm and that "Ahh I'm home..." feeling
The ocean's sounds of the waves crashing
The ocean's smells of the salty water
The ocean's look of the pure blue that goes on forever and ever
All this calms me, makes me happy
It is my sancutary
What is yours?
And if you don't have one, get one fast because they can really come in handy when you need to get away from the everyday stuff we all go through
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Flowers For Caylee...
My heart really goes out to Caylee Anthony
Like really??
Casey goes free?
What is wrong with those jurors?!
Man oh man
No mother would go out to clubs and party for 30 days when she knew her 2 yr old daughter was missing
But no worries, a lot of people hate Casey now and karma will bite her back HARD
and hopefully Caylee is happily resting in a nice place now, away from all this worldly drama and pain
much love for baby Caylee!!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Take A Look
Take a look at your life
Look at where you live
Who you are surrounded by
What job you have
Look at all aspects of your life and what the reality is
Then look at each thing you wish your life was like
Compare the two and see what you can change to make the "reality" list look just like the "dream life" list
Breaking down each goal into smaller goals makes it easier to accomplish!
Set little goals for yourself and you are much more likely to succeed
I hope you all succeed! A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Look at where you live
Who you are surrounded by
What job you have
Look at all aspects of your life and what the reality is
Then look at each thing you wish your life was like
Compare the two and see what you can change to make the "reality" list look just like the "dream life" list
Breaking down each goal into smaller goals makes it easier to accomplish!
Set little goals for yourself and you are much more likely to succeed
I hope you all succeed! A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
You
You are
- Beautiful
- Funny
- Adventurous
- Intelligent
- Sweet
- Powerful
- Imaginative
- Sincere
- Successful
- Loyal
- Self-reliant
- Mature
- Chic
- Healthy
Ask me for any advice! Love you all <3
Love,
KissyNicole
Learn A New Language
Wouldn't it be really cool to learn a new language?
That can seem like a hard task but then how do others do it?
Find some free software online to teach you and try and learn one new thing a day
By only learning one or two things a day you can not feel so overwhelmed by learning this complex language!
It really isn't that hard!
Set small language goals and work more and more until you can speak sentences, have a full convo, and eventually become a fluent speaker
How much of a confidence booster is that??
"Oh yeah I can speak...." That really is great to be able to say
You could meet people of that country and become friends with them
It can open up more career opportunies too!
Go try it! And have fun doing it!
Email me if you have anything on your mind! kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
That can seem like a hard task but then how do others do it?
Find some free software online to teach you and try and learn one new thing a day
By only learning one or two things a day you can not feel so overwhelmed by learning this complex language!
It really isn't that hard!
Set small language goals and work more and more until you can speak sentences, have a full convo, and eventually become a fluent speaker
How much of a confidence booster is that??
"Oh yeah I can speak...." That really is great to be able to say
You could meet people of that country and become friends with them
It can open up more career opportunies too!
Go try it! And have fun doing it!
Email me if you have anything on your mind! kissynicole2@live.com
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Parents
Parents can become the number one hindrance when trying to follow your dreams
They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky
Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."
That isn't very nice to hear is it?
It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things
But you know what?
Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love
Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too
Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want
But you will not be the audience anymore
Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
They should encourage you but sometimes we aren't so lucky
Our parents can be a big obstacle with all their negativity and close mindedness
They can say things like "You can't do that" or "All you'll ever be is..."
That isn't very nice to hear is it?
It can be very difficult to follow your dreams when all you hear is no no no
You can have all the determination but when your constantly hearing no from someone important in your life, that can really put a downer on things
But you know what?
Their opinion doesn't matter when it is something you love
Never listen to anyone that tells you "you can't" because in all reality they can't and they are trying to project that onto you
Only truly happy people encourage others to be happy too
So if you are around unhappy people, guess what, you will be too
Let them be unhappy, let them do what they want, let them say whatever they want
But you will not be the audience anymore
Let you be your biggest cheerleader and you can make your dreams come true
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Help Someone
Why do people love to hate on one another and make each other become isolated?
It doesn't get anyone anywhere
It just makes someone else's life suck a little more
But come on we are all people, going through the same shit
We have the potential to change someone's life
Start lending a hand to someone who needs it
Show someone you care
Show them they aren't alone
Become a shoulder to cry on
That can mean so much to someone who needs it...
I'm here to cry to, talk to, ask stuff to, whatever
I love you all :)
A kiss for you!
Email me <3
Love,
KissyNicole
It doesn't get anyone anywhere
It just makes someone else's life suck a little more
But come on we are all people, going through the same shit
We have the potential to change someone's life
Start lending a hand to someone who needs it
Show someone you care
Show them they aren't alone
Become a shoulder to cry on
That can mean so much to someone who needs it...
I'm here to cry to, talk to, ask stuff to, whatever
I love you all :)
A kiss for you!
Email me <3
Love,
KissyNicole
Hmmm
The world is so beautiful if you just open your eyes to see it
Kiss for you!
email me with questions! kissynicole2@live.com
MUAH!! <3
Kiss for you!
email me with questions! kissynicole2@live.com
MUAH!! <3
Monday, July 4, 2011
Art
Art is such a great thing!
It can let people connect without even speaking a word
It can create a feeling rather than just a thought
It is a universal language
And on top of it art is so therapeutic for you to do!
When you take your feelings or thoughts and pull them out onto your art,
It is like taking them away from your mind
You can forget about a break up for a while or something else that pains you
It can help you see your mind from the outside
And that right there can help you cope with anything
Try it!
Take a piece of paper and draw absolutely anything you like and it doesn't have to look amazing, just as long as you feel the art rather than simply "do" it
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
It can let people connect without even speaking a word
It can create a feeling rather than just a thought
It is a universal language
And on top of it art is so therapeutic for you to do!
When you take your feelings or thoughts and pull them out onto your art,
It is like taking them away from your mind
You can forget about a break up for a while or something else that pains you
It can help you see your mind from the outside
And that right there can help you cope with anything
Try it!
Take a piece of paper and draw absolutely anything you like and it doesn't have to look amazing, just as long as you feel the art rather than simply "do" it
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Present
One thing you must do to be happy is stay in the present
It is extremely easy to get stuck on the past or get stuck in the "what if" of the future
(I know I have plenty of times....)
That will leave you wanting more always because you can't change either of those
What you can change is the present
The present is right here ready to be mold into whatever you like
Sure future goals are great but not when it becomes obsession and fearful
And sure remembering the past is nice sometimes but again not when it's an obsession
How do you stay in the present? It can be quite tricky
Take a look at what is happening right now
You could be listening to a song, working, playing with your dog, just breathing
Focus on that exact thing you are doing
Don't let anything else come into mind
When you start to practice this and get a firm hold on your thoughts then you can be a much happier and calmer person
Focusing on one thing at a time helps to center yourself immensely
A kiss for you!
Remember you can not have control over the past or future but you do have control over the now
Love,
KissyNicole
It is extremely easy to get stuck on the past or get stuck in the "what if" of the future
(I know I have plenty of times....)
That will leave you wanting more always because you can't change either of those
What you can change is the present
The present is right here ready to be mold into whatever you like
Sure future goals are great but not when it becomes obsession and fearful
And sure remembering the past is nice sometimes but again not when it's an obsession
How do you stay in the present? It can be quite tricky
Take a look at what is happening right now
You could be listening to a song, working, playing with your dog, just breathing
Focus on that exact thing you are doing
Don't let anything else come into mind
When you start to practice this and get a firm hold on your thoughts then you can be a much happier and calmer person
Focusing on one thing at a time helps to center yourself immensely
A kiss for you!
Remember you can not have control over the past or future but you do have control over the now
Love,
KissyNicole
Sunday, July 3, 2011
Changes
Changes can be scary
They can come out of no where
It is a very surreal feeling when you know things will never be the same again
That can be hard to deal with sometimes
The main reason people struggle with change is they don't want to accept it
Once you accept the change, you don't have to like it necessarily, but just accept things are now totally different
That will help you cope with that strong change
Imagine your new life with this change (try to think positively)
Look at the change as it came for a reason, maybe you weren't doing something right?
Change gives us a little push into a certain direction
Figure out where this change is pushing you to go
Maybe it was made to make you a stronger person
Maybe to show you that lover wasn't right for you
Maybe to show you that job isn't for you
Maybe to push you into a better life
Think of change in a positive way like "Great! Now I can start a new chapter in my life"
The past is over now you can move on to being a happier, better, you :)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
They can come out of no where
It is a very surreal feeling when you know things will never be the same again
That can be hard to deal with sometimes
The main reason people struggle with change is they don't want to accept it
Once you accept the change, you don't have to like it necessarily, but just accept things are now totally different
That will help you cope with that strong change
Imagine your new life with this change (try to think positively)
Look at the change as it came for a reason, maybe you weren't doing something right?
Change gives us a little push into a certain direction
Figure out where this change is pushing you to go
Maybe it was made to make you a stronger person
Maybe to show you that lover wasn't right for you
Maybe to show you that job isn't for you
Maybe to push you into a better life
Think of change in a positive way like "Great! Now I can start a new chapter in my life"
The past is over now you can move on to being a happier, better, you :)
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
Saturday, July 2, 2011
JK Rowling
JK Rowling is so right!
We do talk about success a lot more than failure when failure is the building block of success!
We have to fail to succeed, it must happen
We have to hit the lowest of lows in our life to realize there is nothing left to lose
Once there is nothing left for you to lose, you become a risk taker, you're reborn into a courageous person with a new outlook on life.
This gives you unlimited ambition and determination
Losing everything you have and hitting the lowest point in your life is a fantastic thing to happen to you because you can only go up from there
That will liberate you to do great things in your life, which is the best gift for yourself, your friends, and the world
Liberation comes from overcoming fear, conquer your fear and your free
Free to live the life you want!
Embrace your failures and be free you guys! It is quite amazing
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
We do talk about success a lot more than failure when failure is the building block of success!
We have to fail to succeed, it must happen
We have to hit the lowest of lows in our life to realize there is nothing left to lose
Once there is nothing left for you to lose, you become a risk taker, you're reborn into a courageous person with a new outlook on life.
This gives you unlimited ambition and determination
Losing everything you have and hitting the lowest point in your life is a fantastic thing to happen to you because you can only go up from there
That will liberate you to do great things in your life, which is the best gift for yourself, your friends, and the world
Liberation comes from overcoming fear, conquer your fear and your free
Free to live the life you want!
Embrace your failures and be free you guys! It is quite amazing
A kiss for you!
Love,
KissyNicole
My Role Models
- Oprah**** Self made female billionaire, came from hard times and changed lives
- JK Rowling**** Self made female billionaire, came from hard times and used her creativity to write an amazing book
- Gisele Bundchen-on her way to becoming the world's first billionaire supermodel
- Paris Hilton-used her fame to develop a successful brand
- Lady Gaga-used her incredible creativity and talent to change the way people think and feel, inspiring millions and becoming a very rich lady haha
- Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen-successful in fashion world
- Bill Gates-took computers and made them accessible to millions of households
- Bethenny Frankel-created a product then sold it for a hefty price, also has a great husband and daughter
- Candice Swanepoel and Rosie Huntington Whiteley-beautiful and sweet Victoria's Secret Angels
I hope to become something as great as these people one day!
And I hope you do too!
Make a difference in the world..... It needs it
Love,
KissyNicole
What's The Worst?
What is the worst that can happen?
Really think about that.....
If you take a risk doing something what is the worst that can happen?
Somebody goes Saw style on you and kills you because you quit your job and opened a new business?
Hmmm.... Not very likely, sorry
Stop dreaming up worst case scenarios just to get out of being truly happy
Take a risk and enjoy the benefits
or fail and learn from your mistake
That's all folks, super simple, super easy!
Not everyone is out to get you!
Success doesn't happen without a lot of rejection and failing, it has to be that way or everybody would be succeeding in life because it was so easy right? right
Be the one that was courageous enough to go for what they want full speed!
"Be reckless enough to gamble all or nothing to follow your dreams" - John Galliano
This is your life! You're in control, have fun with the opportunity you've been given, which is being alive at this moment!
A kiss for you! Ask me any kind of questions by emailing me at kissynicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Really think about that.....
If you take a risk doing something what is the worst that can happen?
Somebody goes Saw style on you and kills you because you quit your job and opened a new business?
Hmmm.... Not very likely, sorry
Stop dreaming up worst case scenarios just to get out of being truly happy
Take a risk and enjoy the benefits
or fail and learn from your mistake
That's all folks, super simple, super easy!
Not everyone is out to get you!
Success doesn't happen without a lot of rejection and failing, it has to be that way or everybody would be succeeding in life because it was so easy right? right
Be the one that was courageous enough to go for what they want full speed!
"Be reckless enough to gamble all or nothing to follow your dreams" - John Galliano
This is your life! You're in control, have fun with the opportunity you've been given, which is being alive at this moment!
A kiss for you! Ask me any kind of questions by emailing me at kissynicole2@live.com
Love,
KissyNicole
Be You
Be the first at something
Create something
Let pure creativity flow out of you without holding back
When you do, that frees you, it makes you happy
It is an amazing rewarding experience to express yourself
What you have to offer is amazing, share it with the world!
No task is to large to accomplish, set your goals as high as you want
and go for it! Use your creativity to blast your way to your happiness!
There is a little thing inside you that you are AMAZING at
It could be writing, drawing, accounting, whatever
Let it out, it's there, you just have to let it out of you
A kiss for you...
Love,
KissyNicole
Create something
Let pure creativity flow out of you without holding back
When you do, that frees you, it makes you happy
It is an amazing rewarding experience to express yourself
What you have to offer is amazing, share it with the world!
No task is to large to accomplish, set your goals as high as you want
and go for it! Use your creativity to blast your way to your happiness!
There is a little thing inside you that you are AMAZING at
It could be writing, drawing, accounting, whatever
Let it out, it's there, you just have to let it out of you
A kiss for you...
Love,
KissyNicole
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Dream Board
Grab a piece of cardboard
Rip out photos from magazines or whatever you like
These photos should represent your dreams and goals
Put them all over the cardboard
And done!
You have created a dream board, now when you look at it you will be reminded of everything you want and be all the more inspired to go out and accomplish them!
"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world." - Buddha
Your thoughts make your external world, focus on your dreams and boom! they will happen in your life.
A kiss to you!
Love, KissyNicole
And here is my dream board!
Rip out photos from magazines or whatever you like
These photos should represent your dreams and goals
Put them all over the cardboard
And done!
You have created a dream board, now when you look at it you will be reminded of everything you want and be all the more inspired to go out and accomplish them!
"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world." - Buddha
Your thoughts make your external world, focus on your dreams and boom! they will happen in your life.
A kiss to you!
Love, KissyNicole
And here is my dream board!
The Basics
Let's get back to the basics
Tons of people neglect the basics in life and then wonder why their lives aren't how they want it to be
First things first, self esteem, if you don't feel like you are worth having the best, you will never have it because you can't accept that you deserve it!
Next is confidence, self esteem and confidence seem to be the same but they aren't. Self esteem is feeling good about you and loving yourself but without confidence those will take you no where. Confidence gets you to take risks, it makes you feel secure whilst taking your risks. Risk is the only way to get anywhere in life.
Morals, have your own set of morals and rules and stick with them. Don't let other people sway you because if you do, you're trying to be like them, and trying to be like others messes you up! Anyone who has ever became successful in life did it their OWN way, not by following others. You are you, own it, live it, love it.
The rest will follow. If you are true to you, love and respect you, and stay firm with what you want and do what you love to do NO ONE and nothing can stop you! It's as easy as that :)
You make your future happen, you decide, you are in control, some people don't know what to do with that much power so they give it up and let fear take over because it's easier. Life shouldn't be easy, if it's easy then man it becomes SO boring!!
Work on the basics of you, who you are, and work on loving yourself!
Then you can start to work on your dreams!
A kiss for you!!!!
Love,
KissyNicole
Tons of people neglect the basics in life and then wonder why their lives aren't how they want it to be
First things first, self esteem, if you don't feel like you are worth having the best, you will never have it because you can't accept that you deserve it!
Next is confidence, self esteem and confidence seem to be the same but they aren't. Self esteem is feeling good about you and loving yourself but without confidence those will take you no where. Confidence gets you to take risks, it makes you feel secure whilst taking your risks. Risk is the only way to get anywhere in life.
Morals, have your own set of morals and rules and stick with them. Don't let other people sway you because if you do, you're trying to be like them, and trying to be like others messes you up! Anyone who has ever became successful in life did it their OWN way, not by following others. You are you, own it, live it, love it.
The rest will follow. If you are true to you, love and respect you, and stay firm with what you want and do what you love to do NO ONE and nothing can stop you! It's as easy as that :)
You make your future happen, you decide, you are in control, some people don't know what to do with that much power so they give it up and let fear take over because it's easier. Life shouldn't be easy, if it's easy then man it becomes SO boring!!
Work on the basics of you, who you are, and work on loving yourself!
Then you can start to work on your dreams!
A kiss for you!!!!
Love,
KissyNicole
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Make a list
Try making an extremely long list of everything you want in life
From small to really big things
Make a list!
It could be "Keep my room cleaner for longer" or
"become a millionaire"
small and big should go on this list
write it all down with check marks next to each one
pick one to accomplish in a week, month, whatever time you set, then stick with it!
this way all your focus is on one thing at a time instead of a bunch of things that will mess up the process
I believe you can make every single thing on your list happen, now you believe it too!
A kiss for you!
From small to really big things
Make a list!
It could be "Keep my room cleaner for longer" or
"become a millionaire"
small and big should go on this list
write it all down with check marks next to each one
pick one to accomplish in a week, month, whatever time you set, then stick with it!
this way all your focus is on one thing at a time instead of a bunch of things that will mess up the process
I believe you can make every single thing on your list happen, now you believe it too!
A kiss for you!
CHANEL
Anyone see the new Cruise 2011/12 collection from CHANEL??
They make me want to stroll along the beach in a coverup so badly!
Imagine long legs, high heels, a black and white swim suit, a long flowing cover up, thick eye liner, and an oversized bag all strolling by the beach. Fun!
CHANEL is so effortless in looking so classy and elegant, never too much, never too plain, just pure beautiful
When I can, that's definitely the first place I'm going shopping at!!!!
Anyone else a fashion freak?
They make me want to stroll along the beach in a coverup so badly!
Imagine long legs, high heels, a black and white swim suit, a long flowing cover up, thick eye liner, and an oversized bag all strolling by the beach. Fun!
CHANEL is so effortless in looking so classy and elegant, never too much, never too plain, just pure beautiful
When I can, that's definitely the first place I'm going shopping at!!!!
Anyone else a fashion freak?
Monday, June 27, 2011
Relationships
It sucks not to be able to take a look at your relationship from an outsider's viewpoint
"Are you happy?" may be the easy question to ask but it's never that simple is it?
How invested are you in the relationship? All in or only giving some of yourself
Do your friends and family see that you are a better person with this significant other?
Can you picture your life without them?
How many times do you feel bad, cry, or are just stressed because of this person?
General rule of thumb is if you are upset all the time then it isn't right
That may be hard to accept but once you do you can start to heal, repair some emotional damage, and eventually move on and enjoy someone else that will make you feel great!
Do you two enjoy things together? Similar hobbies?
You need things in common to sustain a relationship
Look at your answers to these questions and really evaluate how this love is affecting you
Remember YOU are very important too, sometimes it's ok to be a little selfish
Try writing down a pro-con list of all the qualities and situations you've had with this person and see which side is larger. Writing it down can help show you from an outside view rather than all in your head.
Try using logic and emotion in a balanced way. Your feelings will certainly put up a battle in a relationship but don't let them get the better of you, you're in charge here!
Remember it's not all about if you love the person or not because it's easy to love someone that is completely wrong for you!
Ask me for relationship help! I'm super glad to advise anyone!
Email me: kissynicole2@live.com
Instant De-Stressers!
- Go outside
- Call/text someone you love
- Listen to calming music
- Write down what you are stressed about on a piece of paper then burn it!
- Draw some curvy lines (doesn't have to be a masterpiece)
- Take a few really slow deep breaths
- Take a steamy hot bath
- Close your eyes and imagine a beach, forest, any calming nature scene
- Make up plans on how to change that stressful situation
- Play or pet your doggy!
- Eat some hot soup and watch a funny movie
- Check out YouTube for some relaxing nature videos
- Think positive thoughts, think about what you love, think about who you love, think on a good thought and don't let it go!
- Email me! haha
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Wants
The weirdest thing I've ever seen has to be when people want something and they don't do anything about it
People are so inhibited by something that tells them "you can't do that"
Where does that come from? Maybe our parents, friends, events in life.
One bad experience can scar someone for life
One little thing can become that voice in your head that tells you NO
A horrible part of this problem is sometimes we don't even know it
We accept "no" more than we accept "yes" because it's easier
Yes it's easier to not do anything about what you want, but then why are you expecting your wants to magically appear?
They wont
Part of getting what you want is how you get there, that is half the fun already!
Figure out what you truly want, imagine having it, feel it, if it's really what you want, it will be SUPER easy to get it
The number one thing to get what you want isn't your ability or resources, it's getting rid of fear, getting rid of a voice in your head that says NO
This silly little problem can only hold you back!
Take a risk, do something crazy!
What is the worst that can happen? You won't die of embarrassment or failure will you? Nope it only makes you stronger, it only teaches you to do better.
Just let it go...... Your dreams and wants are CERTAINLY worth the effort
Make a change and get ready to be rewarded for it
A kiss for you!!
People are so inhibited by something that tells them "you can't do that"
Where does that come from? Maybe our parents, friends, events in life.
One bad experience can scar someone for life
One little thing can become that voice in your head that tells you NO
A horrible part of this problem is sometimes we don't even know it
We accept "no" more than we accept "yes" because it's easier
Yes it's easier to not do anything about what you want, but then why are you expecting your wants to magically appear?
They wont
Part of getting what you want is how you get there, that is half the fun already!
Figure out what you truly want, imagine having it, feel it, if it's really what you want, it will be SUPER easy to get it
The number one thing to get what you want isn't your ability or resources, it's getting rid of fear, getting rid of a voice in your head that says NO
This silly little problem can only hold you back!
Take a risk, do something crazy!
What is the worst that can happen? You won't die of embarrassment or failure will you? Nope it only makes you stronger, it only teaches you to do better.
Just let it go...... Your dreams and wants are CERTAINLY worth the effort
Make a change and get ready to be rewarded for it
A kiss for you!!
Here for you!
Number one! First post ever!
I've had a LOT of life experiences and because of that; one, I have a very personable way of helping people get through their life issues, and two, this has made me very open minded.
Put the two together and you have a girl wanting to help others with her own insight.
My life's mission is to change someone else's life with what I have to offer; advice and a listening ear.
Feel free to ask me for help! I know the world can get too harsh sometimes...
So about me;
I love the beach, shopping, traveling, laughing, LOVE, and a huge handful of other things because I just love love love a lot in life! (and you should too!)
I consider myself a "modern hippie" love is all you need in life to be happy man haha
I like writing about fashion and all around everyday things we go through but everyone is too embarrassed to talk about! Ha
No question is too weird, too stupid, or too personal for me
My answers are as loving as a kiss, a kiss from me to you!
Ask me by email: kissynicole2@live.com
I've had a LOT of life experiences and because of that; one, I have a very personable way of helping people get through their life issues, and two, this has made me very open minded.
Put the two together and you have a girl wanting to help others with her own insight.
My life's mission is to change someone else's life with what I have to offer; advice and a listening ear.
Feel free to ask me for help! I know the world can get too harsh sometimes...
So about me;
I love the beach, shopping, traveling, laughing, LOVE, and a huge handful of other things because I just love love love a lot in life! (and you should too!)
I consider myself a "modern hippie" love is all you need in life to be happy man haha
I like writing about fashion and all around everyday things we go through but everyone is too embarrassed to talk about! Ha
No question is too weird, too stupid, or too personal for me
My answers are as loving as a kiss, a kiss from me to you!
Ask me by email: kissynicole2@live.com
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